I dont like poligamy man

Indonesia
March 12, 2012 12:11am CST
well as far as i know in islam poligamy is allow to do. A man can have more than 2 wifes.But am not agree with it coz it make woman feel hurt.If i have husband i didnt want if he doing poligamy with me,better we divorced. What you think, did you agree if you have husband doing poligamy? or for a man, do you like doing poligamy?
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@almond24 (1248)
• Hungary
12 Mar 12
I don't know how men would like the idea to share their wife with another man? Originally poligamy was allowed because that way men could help those women who became widows. Now it seems like many men use it to prove their right to enjoy the company of more women. I can see that in some rare cases there can be a reason for it, but still for a woman it's painful and humiliating I think. Men are allowed to marry more than one woman IF he is able to treat all of them equally. I wonder if anyone is able to do that!
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
12 Mar 12
@lovelysofie, you mean that you not like the man who have already married?
• Indonesia
12 Mar 12
Yes you right. of course woman will get painfull and humilating because of poligamy.I think half of woman in this world didnt allow if they husband didnt poligamy. Well thanks for your respon here. Nice to meet you here.
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
12 Mar 12
yes you right to say that in islam it is allowed up to 4, but its not mean as you you will have to do compulsary, and you will do if you keep that all in right position and will happy. now i have to need my first wife is sick and she is very ill i spend many amount on her treatment and i have to do more and more on her, but now i have to do one more for life time. is one she want to marry with me, i am willing for other cute like you.
• Indonesia
12 Mar 12
Oh am sorry to know that your problem, but i think as her ggod husband you have to spend your time with her and care her with your love.She sick she need you care and your love.Thats your duty to spend many amount to her,coz her your wife.SO i want you spend your time and give all of your love to her.care her till she get well..
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@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
12 Mar 12
Thank you for reply and many goal to get on my love, i love with one girl and i love here very much now i want to marry with her and i have already one wife but she now with her sons to whom i love she is abroad and when she agree with me then i will visit there in their country what i do?
• Indonesia
12 Mar 12
Ooooooooooopss sorry i dont understand what you mean.If you love a girl from abroad you can visit, come to her country her and marry with her.Good luck for u
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@crystal11 (157)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 12
I for one do not agree with poligamy in this modern times. Once upon a time poligamy was necessary to take care of widows or women from poor families. Men were allowed to take more than one wife because women were mostly housewives and were unable to earn a living for themselves. Nowadays women work and are able to take care of themselves. Men tend to abuse this "privelege". They say it is their right. But the reason why is wrong, most of the time! And women should think better than get involved with a married man! That's just my opinion.
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
12 Mar 12
ok you think that every man like to do so for only money. oh nice think about man. if you thinking as may you will not get any partner. do but with every side thinking.
• Indonesia
12 Mar 12
Thats my problem dillraj if i didnt get any partner not ur bussiness ok.Thats my right to choice whos better man for me.I told not all man do that,,i told some man not all ok.Can you understand my words???
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• Indonesia
12 Mar 12
Yes am agree with you crystal11.Because in this modern times woman can take care them selves.Not really need a man.But i see many man in this modern times doing poligamy with other reason,but as far as i know they doing poligamy coz they think they have much money and rich to have more than 2 wifes.So i war with poligamy lol.well thanks for your opinion here.Nice to meet you here,have good day for you.
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