what are the sign that your partner are cheated?
By rozilynf
@rozilynf (140)
March 12, 2012 12:27am CST
Sometimes i have a doubt that my boyfriend cheating on me, because sometimes when he got home he just fall asleep, also in his cellphone have a pin code/ password.. He kinda busy person with his business i miss the things we used to do like dating, i miss saying he loves me, because this past few weeks i think he never saying it to me.. he also have no time for me to spend together, i feel like crazy when he like that, i always have on my mind that he changed a lot, but i still cherish all the time we used to do before. HE cheated to me before, i don't know if he is still cheating until now,
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7 responses
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
12 Mar 12
oh very nice discussion, wht are the sign that partner are cheated? Now one comments of a friend that with her i love very much, she tell me to come their country and then will arranged marriage with each other. i was sure that she really like me. but one day i say a comment from here to another. In that she described that she love with one belonging to abroad and she met with him in their own country and like him. and will marry soon in december, when i saw that comments of her. i told here that why you cheated me when you have already one with you. she said that its only discussion. Now you examine about here? what this is?
@dilrajj57 (1757)
• Pakistan
19 Mar 12
thank you for advice me its mean every female are so cheating or some may be very good?
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
Hi Rozilyn. I have a feeling that he is cheating with you right now. If he changed a lot like the tings he used to do in your relationship, I think there is something wrong. If he cheated before, there is a possibility that he is cheating with you again coz cheaters are always a cheater.
@rozilynf (140)
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13 Mar 12
hi chichgale,
probably your right., thanks for that, yes i think that he really cheating with me now.. i feel nervous but i don't know what it is about.. your right that cheating is always a cheating.. or lie is always a lie,, thanks for that, he is not too busy with his business, he is not like not before.. theres something wrong with that.. we didn't do the things we used to do before, i miss saying to me that he loves me,, but still he keep quiet,, one of my proven he is really have something bad thing.. but i don't want to get so worried.. i feel some stress..
@marimarj23 (124)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
He is kind of cheating... but don't judge yet, he might be too busy this time that is why he is acting that way. Try to observe, sometimes try to follow him, or if you want just talk to him about his changes. But do it in a good way. I think with constant communication you will be able to know and express your emotions.
@rozilynf (140)
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13 Mar 12
Hello there,
your right, maybe his too busy with his business but sometimes i feel so nervous in everything but i can't explain it? i don't know if he is still cheating to me. i try it many times ago following him anywhere, but its not easy doing like that he easy to gone and i don't know where he is going and i'm going to follow him.. i do have a mix emotions, he lies before .. some of my friend that lies is always a lie, or cheating is always a cheating? where i am go to ?
@vimal1990 (116)
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12 Mar 12
The sign for your partner cheating is first thy will try to tell lie with you.. After sometimes thy will start to avoid you i means slightly thy will try to move aways from you these are the main sign for that the partner are going to cheat i think... this is my opinion
@rozilynf (140)
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13 Mar 12
He didn't try to move aways from me.. i can feel that theres something wrong with him.. He didn't like that before, i don't know if he is still cheating on me, i didn't looking any at his gadget now, before i'm looking for it.. but i saw something, i start to get angry to him & lose my trust on him, i'm not the kind of partner, or gf that i will also do that do him i love him so much.. all i want is he tell me everything.. And we don't have secret.. But its seems that i'm just only hoping it for relationship. ):
@sherrybelle (707)
• United States
12 Mar 12
The problem that I see with the information in your post is that you're suspicious, you don't trust him and there seems to be a lack of communication with your partner.
If things are different now that's understandable because in every relationship, it's just a matter of time, before the honeymoon is over.
I would suggest talking with him to decide where you both stand in the relationship.
@rozilynf (140)
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13 Mar 12
Hi there!
I'm not suspicious, you know what i feel something about on how he moves, how he act, thers something wrong that.. before we fight because when i saw his gadget theres something in there, so now i decide not look it anymore. But sometimes i feel like i'm so nervous feeling that i can't never explain.
@Glitznglitter (389)
• Canada
13 Mar 12
Well I definately don't believe in once a cheater always a cheater for the most part. But if he cheated before are you noticing the same signs of cheating that happened previously when he was cheating?
Usually a total change in habits will cause suspicion and that's enough to lose trust.
I think you need to talk to him and see where you stand in the relationship and really listen to what he's not saying when he responds.
Good Luck for your sake I hope your wrong as that wouldn't be a nice feeling.
@rozilynf (140)
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13 Mar 12
i agree with your saying that cheater is not always a cheater for the most, but somebody said cheater is always cheater, lie is always a lie, i don't know what the real thing i must be go.. yes i suspicious sometimes, but look i'm suspicious but the more i'm suspicious and the nervous i feel about it the more the true, i talk to him already but he said that he never lie to me again, how come he never lie to me again? but people always have a lie thing? right?
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
hello rozilyn .. cheating is cheating if you doubt from him i guess you should be think of it and decide weather you want to be part of his life it sounds your`e giving him a second chance and you trying to change him but sorry to say if you really feel thats theres something wrong with his action or you feel he still keep hiding something secret do a moves, do an action because i believe there is no secret that can keep for a long time lol :)
@rozilynf (140)
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12 Mar 12
Lol your advice is so funny, maybe he still cheating, i know in my self that i never cheat to him, i love him so much, i make a move to make things better, i leave it to God i pray for us, to save my relationship to him, and face very challenge, or obstacles comes.. I'm stronger enough to face the reality, theres a karma if he still doing bad things or cheat on me.. God knows eveything, so i will leave it to God, God will be the one give punishment on him.