We will never know when a friend needs us.
By cleverland
@cleverland (150)
Philippines
March 12, 2012 2:44am CST
I left at home at around half past 12 to get to the office early. I got so frustrated when this driver took forever to leave. (I commute, the driver had to wait for passengers.) So then I had to get off and took a cab instead. I wasn't late but my mood started to change. On a rainy monday with a lousy driver, it's just bad.
Here my shift starts. There's an urgent meeting. A very bad news came to us. Our team leader lost her 7 months baby inside her womb. I was shocked. I cried because she spoke nothing but her baby and how excited she is. She had brought baby stuff already. In short, she's ready. She was a very nice friend too as she was there for me when I needed her. And when I say she's there, she's really there, to think that we are not that close, but she was the one who was there more than my closer friends.
Now, she had to go through abortion as she could be in danger too since the baby died inside her. (God, I was just discussing abortion last time.) The thought of seeing her baby taken away from her is just unimaginable and for her too see it...It's unbearable. And after that, she had to heal, physically, mentally and emotionally. The saddest part is her fiance is at work abroad, sailing (he's a seaman) and probably couldn't go home immediately. (I hope he could.)
In friendship, catching up is important. It doesn't matter if you see each other everyday or missed the weekend without saying hello. Because in just a snap, things can either get good or bad.
So let's take the time to check on them by simply saying hi or how are you doing? We may never know when do they need us.
I'm asking you guys to pray for her. I feel like that's the best thing I could do for her.
4 responses
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
12 Mar 12
I am deeply sorry for her loss. It's impossible to know why bad things happen to good people and visa verse.
@cleverland (150)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
Exactly. I'm pretty sure that she's questioning what happened to her and no one and anyway she's allowed. I don't have the courage to see her, because I don't want to be the one crying...
I don't want to see her because I'll be speechless. What would I say? How are you? Are you okay? of course she's not...it's hard to find words to say.
And the hardest part is when she starts asking you questions like what will I do? Why did this happen? I hate this world. What wrong have I done? stuff like that... How can we answer those? It's just so hard.
@manaleli101 (146)
• South Africa
12 Mar 12
She is lucky to have you..ana I feel sorry for her loss. God will compensate her in some way. And thank you about your advice on treasuring friendships.
@Angela826 (2)
• Singapore
12 Mar 12
God bless her, i hope she will recover soon for she has friend like you.
@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
I do feel bad about your friend. I must be very hard for her to deal with the lost. So you must stay with her and make her feel she is not alone. Also thanks for sharing this discussion indeed we will never know when a friend needs us. I feel the need to also check onn them from time to time. I hope she will recover well from the loss.
@harini23 (84)
• India
12 Mar 12
Really we never know when a friend needs us.If she is so sensitive means then it will be more difficult to find whether she needs us not.Because some people can express their feelings very neatly.But some people can not.They will feel shy to express and they will think that, what they will think if we tell to her about this.
Anyways i will pray for her dear.