"you dont love me like i love you" !!
By kini03
@kini03 (222)
Philippines
March 12, 2012 1:28pm CST
personal unhappiness is the greatest contributor to relationship problems,problems can creep in when we start to have thought to "do i love him more than he love`s me?then we try to to equal to figure out if our lover is giving a equal amount back?does loving someone feel good regardless if it`s returned??
6 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
13 Mar 12
It it is coming from our free mind and we mean it, whatever and however we love our partner is good enough. Love to 'show' love is not fair and it is always artificial. If we realy love our partner, it will be expressed when it really needs or when the time comes, love automatically expressed. Everyone is differnt and their methods also would varie. So love the way you like and that is what you can do. For me, I would do it in such a way that how pure it is and which should be beyound comparison.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
showing love have different ways to show ,yes it is coming in our free mind ,that cannot control sometimes ,usually we are attracted only the person and sometimes turning to be obsessed ,that`s why its we start to think of,maybe there`s a possible they can returned their love we wants ,i know expectation is not good,but hoping to love person to give love back is not a big deal,its just a power of love that we feel and cant never hide :)thank you ,yes im free to find love,but i really dont want to search lol im just waiting, you to showyou`re affection and love to the person you love because every minute in this world is important ..
@angelgee14 (462)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
That is what they called unconditional love - loving someone without expecting in return. It's not easy and some people looks stupid but it happens. There are real life story of people who love someone and people called them martyr, for loving a person who doesn't love him/her back.
We cannot judge those people, it's their choice and who are we to judge them. Love is mysterious and moves in many ways.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
hello angelgee,
yes, :) you are right,being in love can do everything just for their love ,even if we are not sure the loves that we need is have a returned,a love is easy way ,easy to fall,and easy to failed and comes to ending that they are realize,there`s something wrong with themselves . a good relationship does not expecting anything to much ,its just give and sharing to their special.
the unconditional love ,the love that we`ve been looking for,this kind of love is very disappointing and unfulfilling ,because it vanishes,when we makes mistake and we fail to meet expectations of those who love,i respect to the people that giving all their all to their loves that just we can call it really as a martyr :) and blind :)
@winston90 (296)
• Romania
12 Mar 12
Of course that loving someone is influenced by the fact that love is returned or not.
If your love is not fueled by the others person love it will eventually fade, and dissapear.
You can love someone that doesn't return your love, but eventually you will get to your senses, and realise that it doesn't have to be like that, and you don't have to waste your energy and sentiments to someone that doesn't apreciate it.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
i know waiting for the person to give love back is useless ,yes its just wasting an effort ,to forcing guy and expecting to much for his love is very hard and very hurt in the end, i just say love must be awful ,we must be accept and realize what he/she can give and accept the fact that`s you can make a lot of things makes work only in your`e hand :)
@manaleli101 (146)
• South Africa
12 Mar 12
Unrequitted love could never be fulfilling. Imagine doing everything to show somebody that you loved them and to never receive something as a token of appreciation. I dont mean that if you buy your partner a car he should buy you a car too. All I am saying is a relationship is a too way street, a give and take.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
12 Mar 12
yeah,i know in relationship they are always up and downs,sometimes may even difficult than to others ,of course feeling can changes as well and talking about material is not a big deal ,yes your`e right it must be give and take but it seems to me now a days its just love seeing in a material way? love is just a passionate that`s gives in partner .. :)
@rozilynf (140)
•
12 Mar 12
lol your right that unhappiness is the big problems whenever you where in the relationship, how can you say than you love him more than he loves you? i think its just thought that comes on your attraction, if you think that your partner don't loves you equally then its not. be positive on your way love is about give and take , you give love on your partner he take it,, and give it back to you.. "YOU DON'T LOVE ME LIKE I LOVE YOU" it is i just your mind.. you thought about it! careful about your thoughts.. because if your is like that, then your body comes that..
@kamaeca (161)
• Philippines
4 Jul 12
When we love, we love. Love doesn't question who loves the other more. When we love truly, we don't expect anything in return. Just feel lucky if that love is being reciprocated. But if you can't stand a situation where you are the only one loving, get out of the relationship and find the one who can make you truly happy. Love yourself. ;) Goodluck. :)
