being unfaithful

I don't think 90% of the men is unfaithful. Also what is unfaithful? If you are allowed to have more as 1 wife (moslim) you are unfaithful in my eyes but not in the eyes of other. Also I do believe there are plenty of women who are unfaithful too. And if both agree to have different partners next to marriage it's not unfaithful to me but in the eyes of others it is. A victim you are only if you accept this behaviour. If you don't like it say so. If nothing changes then leave! It's your life, you have to live with it and develop yourself and in the end you are the one who has to say: I did it my way I can be proud of myself. If you accept it then there is nobody you can blame for it.

yes its true..!i really hate this.some men are unfaithful.I am a victim with this also but i used to care for the love so we are ok already.They are just some women who are abusing the weaknesses of men. The no.of women right are gradually increase so we can not do anything.Just we need to do is, we will not let women take this kind of attitude.Especially those single girls..lol..hmp i don't like to elaborate it.

I'd say both genders have the same tendency but probably higher percentage in men rather than in women 90% sounds too much though, remember they can only cheat if they have something women want, otherwise they can't and I'm sure not that many men have what most women want :)

I am sure there are women who are like this, too. I just want to make it clear that I am not trashing men. It is a matter of values. I am tired of being the victim of those who cheat and lie. Others are prone to say that you let them hurt you, but that is not true. It is very hard to decide who you can trust and who you can't.

Why is it men are always accused of polygamy. It seems like girls are not doing it also. Don't you know that the population of girls who cheated their partners is starting to increase? Men are the victims here being tempted by women. Since we are weak when it comes to women that is why we easily be tempted. Logic will say that women are dangerous compare to men because they are the one initiates and men just follow the initiation because as what I have said "we are weak" when it comes to women. I know you've been hurt by men but we are the same because my girlfriend cheated on me so I think it is fair. Both men and women are polygamous.

I agree! Maybe it's their nature. Let's just be careful next time.

Hello, It means they dont really know how to love and respect others. Those kind of guys are sefish and self centered. Poor girls that they choose. But dont worry karma always strikes to them. Even we never wish that to happened it will happened. If they always do that nobody will love them and they will grow old without nothing. We will not suffer to all the consequences they choose.

it is guys mentality to cheat girls. They want ten girl friends at a time to take care of them. But not all guys are worst. We need to search a lot to find a better guy who really case for us. I believe in god and hope that i will get a better guy whom i can trust.

It is hard to trust those fake man.Who acting kind at first,just to get something from you. But i am happy that i am still in the trust of God,to have life partner that is true.

Because they are selfish creatures who think they can escape easily with whatever they do.

90%? I hope not, that's too much They say that men are polygamous by nature, and women are monogamous, but that's just a bad excuse for selfishness. Many women would have reasons to cheat too, like being ignored, but most of them don't do it. We live in a civilized society, but even if we lived in the wild i don't think it would be acceptable.