Why she deleted her account?

@vt689586 (584)
India
March 13, 2012 3:00pm CST
hey mylotter, i am big addict of facebook and using it to chat with friend.One day i saw a friend request from a girl and she was my classmate in college days.we did not when we are in college but in their when i saw her's request i added her into my list.and after that we start chatting in facebook.everything goes well and she was very happy with behavior . but yesterday in the evening she came online and told me that she take a new connection of broad band and i replied that's good but after few minutes she said that she has to go,i asked her that when will she come back ,she replied that i don't know. and friend today she deleted her account.i don't understand why she did this.i am very upset with this.what can i do to bring her back?
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15 responses
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
i am sure something came up that made her decide to deactivate her account. whatever that is, only her knows why. and maybe what you can do at the moment is wait. i am sure you will know the answer sooner or later.
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
yup. that's all you can do for now and hope for the best.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
yeah i am waiting for her because now nothing is my hand and it feels very bad.i never thought about this situation but i have to face it right now.it was her's decision and only she knows why she did this.we only predict.
@vimal1990 (116)
14 Mar 12
their is nothing to worry about it... she may have some contrain so she may deleted her account i think or else... some body may hacked her account or else she may have some angry on you.. otherwise surely she have missed you.. she will feel that and surely she will come back again...
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
no i don't think she is angry on me because i never did such work that makes her uncomfortable.unless she was very happy with me and telling i am the first male friend of her's that she liked.but i have to wait now for her.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
i think she is your friend indeed, but she could just be facing problems right now and just let her heal.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
yeah she is my friend and if she is facing any problem then why she did not tell me about that problem.may be i can solve her's problem.because if i am not with her when she has any problem then i feel myself nothing for her.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
13 Mar 12
I guess there's no real way of knowing. Facebook (or any social networking site) is NOT for everyone - some people just don't like having 'fake' friends or having their info on the internet. One of my good childhood friends recently deleted hers because she just didn't want anyone in her business, which I totally understand. But I like having Facebook - I do, especially for the purpose of keeping in touch with old friends and high school friends that I don't ever get to see. But to each's own! I wouldn't take it personally. Maybe you have an e-mail or some other way to keep in touch with this person? Good luck to you...& Happy MyLotting!
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
yeah you are right that there is no way to know why she did that but if she was going to do this ,then it was her's responsibility to told me about that.because i am her's one of the good friend.and she did not have any fake friends in their profile.
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
13 Mar 12
She is gone buddy, so you must move on buddy, always keep another option in case of gals as they are un predictable.
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
i know she is gone but i don't want to move on like this ,i am waiting for her ,she will come back soon.because there is no reason for her to go like this.yes girls are unpredictable but she is not that type of girl.
@nicegilr (214)
13 Mar 12
This is Her choice . And He have a right of doing so . So if she was happy with facebook and you . Than I thing She should not good bye to Facebook .But may be possible she have some trubles so you should meet her if you know where she is livign ? otherwise when she will fine she will come again and chat will chat you .
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
i respect her choice but she should think about others also because her's act can affect other person also who are attached with her.i know that where she is living but it is not possible for me to go to her's home for that.because there are many things can involve in this.
@KrauseHome (36447)
• United States
15 Apr 12
Well, many times people delete their accounts on Facebook for many reasons. They just usually find that it no longer suits their needs and so they delete it and are many times happier as well. She could have had some personal issues at the time, or felt you were getting to close, and not ready. Who really knows, but just don't let it bother you and enjoy.
@LittleMel (8742)
• Canada
18 Mar 12
unless you have another way to contact her, you won't know why it's deleted maybe someone reported her to FB and her profile was deleted, or someone else has access to her a/c and deleted it, maybe she has a bf that doesn't like her talking to you and other guys on FB and many other possibilities
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
13 Mar 12
There's really no way of telling what really happen and what you can do to bring her back but if she wants to she will. I guess you just have to wait and see if that happens. Good luck!
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
yeah nobody except her can tell why she did that ,we only guess and i am also looking for her to back again.so that all the things can clear.but if she will not back then it is very sad for me.
@shibham (16977)
• India
18 Mar 12
It is very hard to assume what was wrong with her but as i can say that may be she was disturbed by some users. I dont think that she has deleted her account for you or your way of chat. may be she will comeback with a new account and i am half percent sure thats she will comeback and send request to you again. have a nice time.
@cheszka (167)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
You said you talked and everything went fine with the conversation, I think she didn't delete her account. Sometimes things happen like, suddenly one of your friends disappear from your contacts, It's a known facebook issue, it happened to me a lot of times but after a few days they will reappear again in my contacts. And I know for sure she didn't block you, because you said your last conversation went fine. So just wait a few more days or maybe weeks, your friend will be there again.
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 12
Seriously, you should ask her instead of ask us.. o.o Or if you can't contact her, ask her friend.. o.o Surely we can make some assumption about why did she close the account.. But the best answer lies on herself..
@SillyBE (181)
• Belgium
13 Mar 12
Maybe she got trouble with facebook. Sometimes facebook can destroy your life
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
it is sure that she has some trouble but in facebook she chats only with me and with me she is very happy ,and always waiting for me to login ,so that we can chat but what did in one night that i can not understand.
• Trinidad And Tobago
13 Mar 12
Sweetie until she comes back online and tells you why she deleted her account, you just won't know but don't go blaming yourself or anything. I do hope you're not thinking that it's because of you she's gone. If she wants to come back she will, but try not to let it bother you too much,ok?
@vt689586 (584)
• India
14 Mar 12
i am not blaming myself for that because i know that everything between us was going very good.and it is very difficult for me to now to forget her.i hoping that one day she will come back and that day i will be very happy.
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
Maybe she has a reason why she deleted it, or maybe she has a problem on her Facebook account. Facebook has a problem lately. Some of my friends account are locked. I don't know why.