The intention was good but...

I think he had good intentions too but the way he did it is really scary. That just goes to show others though that this can happen and we should NOT put all of our info out there on Facebook. There are experts in this kind of thing and it is scary. I hope he does not do this again, kinda creepy. But thanks to your post now people know this can be done and IS done all the time. Maybe some people will learn to be careful and not put all of our private info on there...

He sounds like a creep. I would be calling the authorities. He shouldn't have hacked your facebook account to get your pictures, and he should not have invaded your privacy. Good intentions or not, he sounds obsessed. Stay Safe, but get away from him.

That is terrible and creepy. Are you going to file a police report or restraining order against him? That is a major violation of your privacy!

Hi. I think what you did is right. You friend should not have done this. Since one has a good intention, he should do the thing good. That only the intention is good is not an excuse for something bad. So think twice before doing things. And we should forgive those who did something bad with a good intention.

I can understand you perfectly. I agree that the intention of your friend (although it is currently only an online friendship) was good. But the fact that he has come into possession of your pictures or your videos in an irregular manner and especially without your permission, well, let me tell you, this should not be absolutely fine! He could do that only after you had your approval. In a sense, having acted in that way he has somehow violated your privacy. I were you, write him, perhaps even to thank him, but but next time will put you informed when he was going to handle your personal material.

Is your online friend a facebook friend? If so, it's really easy to access those pics. If not, stop all connection you have with this individual. Are you sure he hacked your account? That sounds really scary / creepy!!!

hi there toniganzon, well, what he has done is not properly right. although he just did it for some surprising reason, but, still it is not a good move and not a good attitude. that, you can even report him to the authorities to do the proper disciplinary measure. aside from that, perhaps it will be better to report him of that act so if ever he will going to do it again, his name is already in the blotter list.

Hi toni Be watchful and careful of this guy dear. I smell something wrong with him. Whatever it was, he was wrong when he 1- did those videos 2- hacked your accounts and 3-even the start of it was unjustified. Historically - Intentions dont count, it is the end results that do. At the end, no one bothers why someone started doing something, it is only the results that matter. Unfortunately in this case, the end result is going to be scary. You are happily married with a family. And this guy seems to be crossing his limits when he did the 3 I mention above(just my personal opinion though). Now that you have told him what you feel about all this, I hope he understands and goes better.

did he tell how he hacked your account? if your photo privacy there is set to public then he can view it if he is your friend, then download and save them to his PC.

That's scary my friend! Hmmm even I would be scared, you've got a hacker friend? Hmmmm i'd be thinking twice whether to remain as friend, given that the friendship started online. :(

As you say, the intention was good, but he has done it on the wrong way. He hadn't any idea that you would feel uncomfortable. What about if you do some rectrictions in your facebook account so that some info could be only accessed for the people you want. Facebook has this option.

That's scary. I suggest that you may be more careful especially in dealing with people online 'cause they may tend to make false aliases and use them to get information from you. You can file a legal action against him but the problem is that you can not prove that it was really him. So just be careful with your online profile and avoid personal or identifying details. Please do not compromise your personal safety, you must no longer further engage the stalker himself. Happy myLotting!

That is a creepy way of obtaining photos, and I think he should be reported. If he did it once, he could do it again. Just be safe and beware.

Be careful of hackers and stalkers, I wouldn't trust them. They say you should be careful about the personal information that you post online, even here on My Lot, I wonder sometimes it my personal stories get out. So far so good though, I haven't had any problems, I have been enjoying starting discussions and getting good responses and responding to others discussions. Just be careful as to who you trust with your personal pics and info.

I would have been quite concerned. He may have done it with good intentions, but it was wrong. I guess it is a good lesson as to how others can get access to your information.

oh my goodness gracious!!! Now that... is scary!!!

Acting over smart. This is how some good things never get appreciated. End justify the means. But the means here cannot be justified, though the intention was to give a surprise. As usual, instaed of getting an appraisal, the whole effort got into waters...