be kind even others do not

Agree,some people hard to be kind and forgive i because of anger,hatred,and high pride to let it go the anger,and forgive. That is the problems of many today that some killed because of anger,unforgiving.Kindness is wonderful attitude,and peace you will in heart.

The more they are rude or disrespectful at me, the more I am getting nicer to them. I don't hold grudges or plan to take revenges but I just make sure that someday they will realize what they are doing to me. That someday they will need my help and support. I am also a human who is vulnerable and gets hurt. I know my limitations.

I agree with you, it's the golden rule after all - treat others as you'd wish to be treated! Actually I'm not sure if I screwed that up, but it goes something like that. I try to do this, although some people in particular make it difficult when all they do is throw around negative energy. Happy MyLotting!

i can say i am a nice person. i try to help my friends in need as much as i could. but sometimes, when i see people coming to me only when they are in need. i just try to tell myself that i should learn from it and never do them a favor. i am just tired being nice sometimes when i am abused.

When someone does us wrong it is natural to be angry especially when we did not do anything to trigger such action from the other person seems unfair. But on the other hand, arguing with them would seem to be a waste of time and effort. You will only gain wrinkles and heartaches. It is not easily to let go of the hurt feeling but holding on it is never healthy. At my work, people will scold me for the things I did not do. I do get hurt by the harsh words they used. But sometimes it is good not to talk back to make the argument short. Oftentimes these kind of people will not hear whatever you are saying because their mind is clouded with anger. I have learned that once, when I tried to explain my side. I cant win with these kind of people. So if it does happen to me again. I will try to be calm and let those words pass from my one ear to the other. It really hurt when you think that you are doing all you can to help them but get repaid by those kind of attitude. But I will let God be the judge of that. Yes, be kind to others even other people do not, cannot and will not.

My understanding is that forgiveness has a cleansing effect on our energy field so we are free from holding a grudge and WE benefit whenever we choose to forgive. I also believe that kindness is important. One reason I like to watch Ellen DeGeneres is because at the end of each show she always says... Remember to be kind to one another.

Lots of people try to bring us down nowadays. I don't even know the reason, but it's quite common! The hard thing is controlling your emotions. A great example is high school. It's full of bullying and name-calling. Having grudges or bad emotions towards anyone eats you up from the inside. I try to avoid conflicts in every way I can. Instead, I try to socialize and make friends with lots of people. Live your life in a good way, don't waste it having grudges and bitterness towards others! Hope this helps :)