why do men always want the women to obey thembut they dont wan toobry the woman

@kini03 (222)
Philippines
March 14, 2012 2:06am CST
it is so wrong ..... this is showing that they was not taught how to be a real man but i know still some real mean out here that are positive, am right guys??
3 responses
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
14 Mar 12
It has been from very long back we observe such a system and I think it will take a long more time to keep a proper balance. Improved a lot and I am sure that atleast 10% or above, there are women has domination at certain places and areas. Whatever happens outside (in general), is a common factor. But at home or when it comes to our own life we can change it by a mutual understanding. Love each other and this throry keep both man and women makes equal importance. But the real love each other should work properly. Thank-s
• India
14 Mar 12
As I said earlier, there are a lot of improvement happend and happening. Still, in our country also, certain family still have such a system where head of the family (male/husband) would be the supreme power and he decides and acts as the main person. Femals or women have no power or they never come out for anything other than kitchen work. Especially, certain religion strictly follow this system and as it is being part of a religion, comman man can't interfere in their life. But thins have changed a lot as the culture changes. Globalisation, TV, media and telecommuncation had influenced a lot for this equality. There are government plans to bring for this equality and we can be proud that there are so many women here become the outstanding personalities and they are always asset to all nations and after all, they are to be worshiped as being a good mother, nice sister, trusted wife and a wonderful gift to man as well. THank-s
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
:),umm yes you are right, i know man is have the power in making a decision because they are head in the family, but speaking in family ,sometimes i observed boys are not good listener ,why boys didn`t listen to the side of there partner,but honestly for me ,not because they are head of the family they are right, im not believing on this one.the global world in terms of communication not only affect at the human interfere, they just making IN , in themselves.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
exactly,,why the two partner didn`t think that?or just man acting like they are always right?we should be level in the situation,and respect in both side,so the relationship must be going to be more understandable, let say give and take right :) ,yes in the real love ,the lovers must be obey follow,and should always need to listen ,because i believe ,talking silence conversation must be grate,than to yelling while talking to each other lol :),.everything will be cleared in the simple and sharing thought of both parties :) right ...
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
Well, men likes to rule almost everything. They want to take what they want and they expect women and men as well to obey them when they ordered something or asked for something but not when they are servants. I agree with you that men are sometimes like that, but not all men are like that. Just because 1 man is like that does not mean we all are, right? Also, men actually does not want to obey women's orders but they would like to do something for you when you show signs you want it. That's all my thoughts about this one (I mean a brief summary of what my thoughts are). Well, have a great day and happy mylotting.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
14 Mar 12
ummm ,,i saw about relationship this is always happened ,i just keep thingking is boy looks like a king that always right when they think about making a decision is need to be follow lol .how about the right of a woman,sometimes boy didnt listen well of a girls explanation, im just thingking maybe boys have really high pride than girls right? he he he yeah i know there`s still guys they arent like that,i know still have a pleasure heart of a guy,thats always do anything just for their partner,:P.
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
Yeah. I think what boys should do in the presence of a lady/girl is to be a gentleman and not just a gentleman but a listening gentleman. From my observations, women tend to like boys who listen well, i bet they want to be accepted by who they are. Maybe boys have to more empathetic when talking and listening to girls. Girls are precious creature created by God taken from the ribs of a man. Have a great day.
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
he he, boys need to be a good listener and gentleman,i wish still have man like that :).. yes the girl more good listener than boys, actually girls do some stubborn act but definitely sometimes,they act like that because of the attitude of a boy also. anyways honestly more of the girls are more than emotional,than boy,boys sometimes showing their real attitude when they angry, right?unlike girls that just sometime they are keeping their feelings or just cry ,i just say not all women but usually this characteristic of girls have :)..
• South Korea
14 Mar 12
I do follow my husband as much as i could but i do make sure that there is give and take and proper communication... But honestly i let him wear the pants.. because i still believe that man has natural superiority over woman.. even though most of the woman today we almost equal with man.. i just think that way... As long as each party are happy..then maybe theres nothing wrong with it..
@kini03 (222)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
oho hoh ho ho :) well good for you , yes you`re right as long us the both partner are happy lets obey the rule of husband :P .. yes good communication is needed to a realtionship. for me ,i guess women is a soft of nature,and they have little lesser will power than man .:)