keep your friends close but your enemies much more closer
By anuragv69
@anuragv69 (91)
March 14, 2012 12:02pm CST
don't know why people have a problem if he or she roams with there best friend . well it happpened to me every time . when she needed help i did what ever i could . never had bad thoughts about her . but one of his cousin said we hold hands while walking first i never did it second his cousin knows me how i am but even though he said it to his boyfriend . nothing happened but for no reason she was been abused by his boyfriend . she phoned me and she was crying said her just be happy don't cry if you will be happy i will be happy . i simply felt leaving her would me better option rather than making her cry for no reason. lost my best friend for no reason and i miss her . so just keep ur friends close but your enemies much more closer.
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3 responses
@rusty_butterknife (21)
• India
15 Mar 12
I think in this case, a confrontation is necessary. Why let the cousin get away with it?
Furthermore, not trying to clear it up is doing nothing to clear the bad perception in the boyfriend's mind. That's really not fair to your friend.
@tipay26 (867)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
Being with your closest friends is the most happy feeling in the world.But knowing what your enemies are doing is really a hard task to take.It is just fair that you know what your enemies are doing so that you can protect yourself from them.We have to understand that we have enemies because we stand up on something that both of you didn't agree on and the result would be a clash from the both of you.Having enemies doesn't necessarily mean we are bad it's just that there are things that both people didn't agree on that's why confrontation arises.There are times that your enemies can be your best friends in the long run.When all the wounds are healed then that's the time for forgiveness and friendship.
@Glitznglitter (389)
• Canada
14 Mar 12
I have to agree with you, your friends you know will be there for you so cherish them and enjoy your time with them. However, your enemies can be dangerous they could turn on a dime so you need to be aware so at times it can be best to keep those who you aren't fond of closer to know what they are up to.
Sometimes jeolousy can put you in the middle as in your situation someone got jeolous over you being there to help out your friend and started causing problems.
