Unpredictable people.....
By ardoy0731
@ardoy0731 (7308)
Philippines
March 15, 2012 12:52am CST
I'm bubbly and jolly kind of person.I'm a joker and always laugh all the time.I'm easy to get along with other people and friendly enough to them.In the office they consider me as the joker who always have jokes in almost every words that they say.They always laughing whenever I'm around especially during lunch and snacks times when everyone gathered to eat and talk for awhile.Every things seems to be fine,I look forward each day positive outlook and with smile in my face.
I truly believe on what they say that we can't please everyone.There are some people in the office who are quite unpredictable that sometimes irritating and makes me/us out of mood.There is one who always joke around too,sometimes green jokes and joking around other people but when he is the one who become the topic of the joke, he never accept it and take it too personal.He just suddenly become silent and cold to us as if we do anything grave to him so we just stay away from him.
The other one is a girl whom is really unpredictable.She will come to the office smiling then later on mad.When we are laughing around,she will look at us then get give us a clever look.We are quite awkward and aloof to approach her sometimes.She always have side comments too that are quite mean and hurtful especially when we are eating treats from someone's blow out.
Well just don't mind her and just stay happy and enjoy life in the office.
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4 responses
@cleverland (150)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
We can't really please everybody. We are tailored that way, I guess. So that we may learn on how to deal with each other, deal with our emotions and deal with ourselves as well.
Whenever I encountered difficult people, it sounds hard as it may seem, but I was able to learn how to ignore them. There's this person in the office who had several people whom she had fought with, including me. And all of us used to be her close friends. Every time we crossed path, she's giving the "I am better than you" attitude. I've learned (hell, it's a loooong process..) to ignore her and just pay attention to a bunch of other friends that love me. I think that's one way to do it...
Ignore and diverse your attention to things/people that matter to you:) Your actually doing yourself a favor of not getting hurt and you're moving away from committing sins out of bashing that person. And pretty much you do the same for that person which might feel the same way.
It's all about understanding...Try...even if it's VERY HARD.
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
Yeah we really can't.I do ignore and try to stay away with those people and just enjoy the moment,seized the day and have fun.
@webearn99 (1742)
• India
15 Mar 12
I am like you in many ways, trying to be witty and sometimes irreverent too. I can relate to you when you say you are not appreciated always. I have been told that I am not serious about life or work or my family or others "feelings".
Seriously, why should I care? That is the way I deal with my issues. If I start moping about my life, how am I different as an individual? My life has not been good to me, given my medical problems, but that is no reason why I cannot have fun and in the process make others happy. There will be people who do not appreciate what I am, that's okay by me, if they want seriousness, they go somewhere else.
Having said all that, I have also learned to sense and interact with people who treat me as a source of entertainment as and when their mood demands. I think they are selfish and egoistic. I usually reflect the mood they are in and have fum when they get confused on why I, who they consider a childish nut, is all "grown up"? No point in not having fun, is there?
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
It is my way of interacting to them and enjoy the moment with them.Indeed life is too short so better enjoying it than being aloof and unpredictable.
@choybel (5042)
• Philippines
15 Mar 12
It is a good gift you have, one that you can truly share with others. Continue on giving people smiles and laughter and do not mind those people who gives negative remarks on you. As long as you don't cross lines, you are doing a good job. I am also considered the funny guy in the group so I know how to handle people who are bipolar and sensitive. I have friends who are like this. I cannot change them but I try to make them laugh when I'm around.
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@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
Yeah I always make sure that they will laugh each day at work even just for awhile.I just enjoy each others company.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
Some people could really be killjoys. They don't want laughing while working. All they want is for the office to be silent so we could concentrate on our works.
But without jokes and laughing , the job at the office seems boring and sad.
Just don't mind those kind of people. They were born yesterday.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
Actually ardoy, they are people who are just jealous because you can be alway happy even with simple things.
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
Yeah right,killjoys who just wanted to be out of us.Trying to irritate themselves.
We don't mind them and just enjoy each others company.