my cousin and my ex boyfriend..

Yikes! That is a weird position to be in! anyway, I cannot relate to your situation, as I am a man. However, your question has highlighted one of the major challenges that you have to face in 'navigating the relationship landscape'; by virtue of you being a woman. Be mindful that men can also experience similar situations, whereby they can be entangled in a scenario that he and a male relative may become intimately involved with the same woman at some time in his life. However, men's reaction towards my scenario mentioned in this paragraph is different from the scenario presented by you earlier.

That's fine with me as long as they're living outside the country. That means I won't have to endure seeing them on family gatherings. It will be the most awkward situation a person could be in. No matter how many times people would say, its fine, it never is or will be. I don't like to have my ex date one of my girl friends, what more if its my cousin. I can't imagine it.

Unless the reason he is an ex is dangerous be happy for them. He is your ex for a reason and whether he moves on with some one you know or not it is none of your business really. There is no need to make drama but if this makes you feel something then maybe you should not have gotten rid of him. Now if he left you and do having feelings still I am sorry but this is life and giving over to jealousy is just unneeded drama that no one needs the stress of, including you. My cousin and I as well as some of my girlfriends have dated some of each others exes. My sister dated one of mine and my best friend growing up married one of my others. I am happy for them and though at times I might have a what if moment they are few and usually make me happier to be with my husband now.

I would find myself mad at the idea that my cousin is now the gf of my ex-boyfriend. Unless, of course, if our relationship is something that ended up a very long time ago. I find it to weird to have my ex to whom I'd spent part of my life with and confided my secrets with to be having relationship with my cousin. For others, they will find it humiliating and very disrespectful. For me, I find it very painful. But, life is sometimes like that. I'll try to be civil as much as possible.

if i don't have feeling to my ex boyfriend, it'll be okay with me..but it's usually about your cousin's respect to you..if she respects your closeness to each other, then your ex boyfriend will always be out of her list..

if i being u maybe i feel little jealous in my heart, but i have to can accept it if me and him was broken,so i try to dont care of that.forget about all memory with him.I will try to smile and say "hi" when i meet them.just think i can find better man than him.good luck.

Well I think I would be a little hurt but overall its not like she is my sister or best friend that would kind of hurt more then a cousin dating an ex. It would also kind of depend how long they wanted to before going out. Other wise I wouldn't say or do anything just keep things to myself. If they make each other happy I'm not going to break that up or say hey you can't date this guy because I dated him and we are family. I'm an adult and they are an adult and they can be with whomever they want to be weather I like it or not.