love

@bonding2 (219)
South Africa
March 15, 2012 10:13am CST
MY friend's girlfriend left him for another well loaded guy, she told my poor friend pointblank that she has moved on with her life ,six months later she is now begging to come back because probably the well heeled guy has dumped her . My friend is ready to accept her back but wants my candid advice,please fellow my lotters ,i need help.
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@NailTech (6874)
• United States
17 Mar 12
I wouldn't take her back, she is probably regretting her decision and he has probably thrown her out holding the fact he is loaded on her. He might have been an abuser, some people with money feel like they are entitled to do things to their mates that is unacceptable.
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@tagakolo (46)
• United States
15 Mar 12
No way I will accept her! if I were your friend.She disrespected your friend so much.How he can be sure that she's not gonna do the same thing again? It is really hard to trust somebody like that.Please tell your friend to forget her and move on with his life.He deserve somebody better than her.I know it's hard but he can make it if he really wants to.It's better for him to get hurt right now than be hurt again and again,because there's no guarantee that this woman wont hurt him again.
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@prinzcy (32305)
• Malaysia
17 Mar 12
Why don't your friend accepts her and then tell to get a hike? Sorry, sorry, that's not a good advice. I don't know what's on your friend mind since he's ready to accept her back. He probably still love her. But things would only work out when the feelings are on both side. If he's the only one who love her, then it won't last. Plus she already left him once, will she stay in the future?
@jagjit273 (1754)
• India
16 Mar 12
They say once a crook always a crook. So use her and throw her. F her and forget her.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
15 Mar 12
First of all I think this is not of your business so tell your friend so. It has to be his decision if he will give the relationship a new chance. Also he is the one who has to find out if he is still loving her and is willing to fight for it. Since a relationship with someone you think/feel who will run out of you again or you don't trust will kill you. I haven't heard you say once if your friend loves her or if she loves him. Don't you wonder about that yourself? I think love is able to survive, but if there is no love...
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
You can give your friend an advice or share your opinion to him, but it is depend on his decision. It is all up to him. If he will be happy of accepting her again, it's his choice.