cheating or not cheating

Philippines
March 15, 2012 8:28pm CST
if you're just thinking about cheating (in a relationship) but not actually doing it ... is it considered cheating?
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10 responses
@Marvz18 (106)
• Philippines
22 Mar 12
You know there is a saying "The Doer, the thinker", so quit thinking about it... try to think of positive things, negative thoughts attracts negative things so be positive... :D
18 Mar 12
that is not cheating. But if you will do it, that is already cheating. Don't cheat if you really love the person, and if you think the person is really loves you,honest, faithful in your relationship. Respect.
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
hmm, maybe it could be considered as such. but the decision of not really and actually doing it, means you won against the bad thought and have struggled to be on the good side.. ^_^
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
17 Mar 12
It is not yet cheating but then that person has actually a motive already to cheat.
18 Mar 12
that is not cheating. But if you will do it, that is already cheating. Don't cheat if you really love the person, and if you think the person is really loves you,honest, faithful in your relationship. Respect.
@vertu007 (683)
• Romania
16 Mar 12
No, it's considered thinking about cheating. I think a lot of people think about doing something with another person they see and think is cute, or when they are mad, or drunk or whatever, but as long as you don't do anything it's not cheating. Don't think too much about it thought, you might end up cheating :)
@varier (5685)
• Indonesia
16 Mar 12
Nah.. A person can not be blamed for things that only lies in his/her deep mind. But for peacefulness of our own mind and soul, better don't think about someone else too much if we already have partner. The same thing works generally: don't fill our mind with dirty and bad thought..
• Malaysia
16 Mar 12
For me if you're just thinking but not really do it it was not cheating because no action for that..One question..why must cheating?If something unsatisfied just sit and make it clear again.So your relationship will going smooth and steady..
16 Mar 12
No, it is not cheating,
@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
16 Mar 12
I don't think it is considered cheating. Cheating is really by doing it, but if you are just thinking on cheating, nothing happened yet, or you didn't cheat yet.