right or wrong

I think we are always going to have those questions just simmering in the back of our minds. Of course, I really try and not second guess a lot of the things I do. I will rather tend to know the results of my actions, the consequences before too long. And there are times where every action has things about it that are both right and wrong. But there are times where there are more actions that are towards wrong and more actions that are towards right. Sometimes we tend to outsmart ourselves and sometimes what seems like the right thing to do normally might be the wrong thing for the situation. And other times, there is no right answer, only one that is less wrong. So really, there are just going to be times where we are going to question a lot about what we do. Perhaps we are going to be questioning more than we should a lot of the time. Perhaps more than we should.

In the situation where you have been out for the night, both of you were probably tired, maybe took something the wrong way and it ended up in a heated argument. I used to be that person that would back down and try to smooth things over but I found it never really made me happy it just made the situation happier. When in any discussion nice or heated I always make sure I say what I feel, I am totally honest if it doesn't resolve the arguement or whatever then sorry but that's how I feel and I need to say what I feel. I think you were right to answer back why should you keep quiet?

every time me and my wife have arguments, it's usually me that stops talking as she is usually the one that do not stop talking while me or anyone that she has an argument with do not stop talking. i keep it in mind that when she talks, i listen, keep myself quiet. there were times before that we talk together at the same time, no one cools down. and so the argument end up to a cold war.

Before making a decision, I will try hard to list all the advantages, disadvantages, and also the consequences. Then later, if the things go wrong, at least I already predicted it that it might happened. I already realized the consequences, got prepared with that, so there mostly no regret. But if things go out of control, or there's thing that I didn't think about it before, I will just add it to my knowledge base, for a reference for the future decision. I believe, there would be no perfect decision. But you just need to be prepare and handle the consequences from a decision.

a lot of people make wrong choices and most of the time they lean towards that because they have low self esteem and low confidence.