In what way can you express that you are so thankful to have him...

Philippines
March 17, 2012 12:21am CST
Good day to all mylotters, Most of us had a different way to express her/his feeling to say thank you to her/his partner,and i am one of many people that lack of expressing to say or lack of action to say thank you because of being kind and loyal to me, how can i say or express my feeling to say thank you to him?,what can i do?can you help me.
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@lilepad (15)
• Canada
17 Mar 12
well i would think the best way to express you love him would be to just say you love him and maybe get him his favourite food and just sit with him. That should make him happy :)
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
"Action speaks louder than words", as it is said. Hence, whenever we feel ashamed to express our appreciation vocally, then we can do it through action. You can good a nice dinner for your husband and eat it together when he comes home from work. Or when he comes home , you can give him a smack kiss and hug him lovingly. Or when you are both resting in bed, you can ask him if he likes a massage. There are really a lot of ways of expressing our gratefulness to our partner. You just have to be creative.
@SIMPLYD (90721)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
You know what stowyk, it only shows that both of us are already indeed experienced on this subject. We already know how we can show our appreciation and love to our partners. To be honest, my husband is not expressive or vocal of his appreciation. But i know that he appreciated me so much that day, when he would hug me in my sleep.
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
26 Mar 12
i think i am very expressive especially when it comes to my feelings and well i always appreciate what people do for me, not only my partner and i think i know i would be able to show them anytime and there is no need to make a special day for it to be shown.
@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
8 Dec 12
hi, i was always thankful to have a good partner in life,and to express it to him,i think i will serve him what he needs,in that way he would feel my sincerity for being thankful to have him in my life,and for the loyalty maybe i will return it to him too i will be loyalty with him too as he did.
@Ralphgee (22)
• United States
17 Mar 12
It should be a natural response.....Someone does something good for me or to me.......i'm going to express my feelings and let that person know that I appreciate them for what the did for me......It should be a natural response, with out hesitation or fear....Its not something u have to think about
• Philippines
18 Mar 12
Hi,if you are shy to till him inwords.Just do it through action.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
17 Mar 12
I was exactly like you but when the one person that meant the world suddenly passed away I then learnt we must let people know how we feel, it is too late for me and I regret it every day of my life, I try to tell people show your loved ones how you feel...tomorrow may never come...
• United States
17 Mar 12
I think the little things go very far. My guy made me toast on New Year's Eve once (as our New Year's Eve toast in place of champagne). It was stamped with "I love you" on it. Maybe do something like that? Maybe have fruit or flowers delivered to him/her at work. It's always fun at work, because it gets your mind back to being at home with the one you love. Maybe send an ecard. The possibilities seem endless.
@jhuddith (222)
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
Hi HeartCH1921, I believe there are lots of ways to express our feelings to our partner. One way is to speak our love. Telling them exactly from our experience is a way of expressing ourselves to our partner. Examples of this is by saying "Do you know what? I was thinking about you throughout the day, and each time I do, I smile. I'm very thankful to have you in my life". Sounds corny but I say that to my hubby every now and then. Also, you may show your love through actions. Whenever I can feel that he needs to have a good massage, I give him one even if I am not that good in it. You may choose any small actions that you think your partner will appreciate. Be available to your partner as being present to him will surely provide you opportunity to serve him. If you have your computers, laptops and television in the bedroom, I suggest you transfer them. Before we tied the knot, my hubby and I had an agreement that we should not be placing these stuffs in the bedroom so that we can have more time for each other. Some may not have noticed it that when you are watching television, you can't seem to recognize that you are spending more of your time watching rather than serving your husband. Hope this helps.
• Philippines
17 Mar 12
I'm so glad you brought this up because I have the same concern .. Let us see what will our dear mylotters can suggests.