a sad fact.. :(

*hugs* Sorry OP. Let it all out. Cry, lash, break a few coffee cups. Don't keep all the anguish inside you. After that you move on. Because there is no point in reliving the past.

Well I guess I only have two choices left. One, I will spend all my day for weeks or probably months to cry and make my own life miserable and keep asking myself why she is doing that to me (which I will never find the answer even after I ask myself for thousands time). Two, I will get myself together, get pack, take a little trip to village see beautiful scenery, take deep breath and MOVE ON, make myself happy because I know I deserve to be happy.

I recently dealt with this. There is a guy who I have known and loved for the past 8 years. Our timing was off tho so we never dated. He'd like me when I was seeing someone else. And then when I was single, he wasn't. Well he just told me that he's getting married. I didn't even know he had a girlfriend! I was and still kind of am heart broken. I'll never get to know what if we had dated. But I hope he's happy because he's an amazing person and he deserves it.

if there is one fact i know for sure, u cant force love, u can only try and when it does'nt work, move on. Doh it hurts but moving on is the best thing to do

Yes it does hurt so what do you do????? YOU MOVE ON Easier said than done, but think about it you're here all sad thinking about them and they're in love with somebody else having fun with that person. That doesn't make any sense. It takes times, but after a while the pain goes away, it's gets better, you learn to grow and develop as your own indiviudal, and eventually somebody comes along that tugs at your heart and BAM you're in love again :) Let me make it plain, I was in a situatin like that a long long long time ago, and the long and short of it is, It's a colossal waste of time to be in love with somebody who loves somebody else, YOU ARE wasting your time being in love with somebody who is in love with somebody else. The person I loved is now happily married with children, do you know what kind of mess I would've been in emotinally if I kept on loving him?? There are times you just need to let go and MOVE ON :)

Being in that situation is never really easy. It really hurts to watch someone you love, love somebody else. But these are facts of life we have no control over. And that's what makes the situation much more difficult because there's not much we can do. I believe it's okay to cry, because it only means that you truly care for that someone. Take your time, but don't get stuck with the pain. Take it one day, one step at a time. Even if all you can do for today is force yourself to get out of your bed in the morning and force yourself to sleep at night, one day you'll wake up and find yourself smiling and looking forward to the day- the same way before you got your heart broken. :)

I have been in in this situation and it is very hard even though the person I cared so much about was actually in love with someone already married, it still hurts so much..

i will try to MOVE ON though it's hard but I have to than continue to hang up on him and continue hurting.. there are many fishes in the ocean, I'm sure there is someone out there for me.. just wait.. :))