i had a good relationship with my father , he died in 1999 and i miss him alot

@laken02 (3065)
United States
March 17, 2012 7:32pm CST
my father was always a great provider for my family, we always had food, running water and a decent home.. when he died he built not one but 2 brand new homes for my mother ..one they lived in the other they used as rental income, my mom got rental income a long time after my dad died, she sold the house they lived in and got that money plus she had the rental income of the otehr house until she sold it this year.. but my dad left her in good standings as far as income money to come in when he died, she makes more then my husband..so he set her up nice.. i am really glad he had the wisdom to do all that and was thinking about her until he died.. as my husband , i will not get the same set up when he dies, as he just does'nt plan like my dad did.. and who knows if we will even be married when he dies.. but right now, he is all i have, if it was not for him i would be homeless, i think about that every day.. and it makes me sad.. i hope i get my disability soon so i wont have to worry so much.. and it would give me and my husband peace of mind.. please keep me in your prayers that i get the disability soon.. the more prayers i get for it the better i am.. as i truley beleive in prayers.. i am going to start praying every day myself.. as well..
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• United States
19 Mar 12
Hi Lake, I will keep you in my prayers that the Lord will see fit to get you started on your disability income as soon as possible. I know it took a few months for me to get mine, but I didn’t have any problem. I’ve had my disability since 1996.
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@laken02 (3065)
• United States
20 Mar 12
you are lucky that you have that, i would feel so much better if i had a steady income coming in and i know my husband would treat me alot better as well.. thank you for your prayers as they are needed.. and appreciated.. i have been trying to get my disability since 1991.. so i an due ... thanks again
@laken02 (3065)
• United States
20 Mar 12
i got a lawyer about a years ago he has been working on it for that long,he is the one that got me the lump sum years ago.. he said this time i need to hold out for a monthly sum.. and i agree. i need and income coming in every month..
• United States
20 Mar 12
You ay have to get an advocate or a lawyer if you haven't already. I didn't need one but one of my friends had to get a lawyer because it took a few years to get his.
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• Mexico
18 Mar 12
Hi laken: Well I think it's beautiful that you keep all these good memories and that you feel blessed for having such a caring father that always think about your future and your mother. I will pray for you and your family and I hope you'll be ok. ALVARO
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@laken02 (3065)
• United States
20 Mar 12
thank you for keeping me in your prayers, i really appreciate it, and just wanted to let you know that i am thankful .. i do miss my dad alot, espically now when me and my mom are having troubles.. pray my family comes back together soon.. as i miss my mom as well..