breakup does change you

Well I'm always hoping that all people who will brake up to their love will see the positive side of it. Losing someone, although its painful ,has a positive effect. Because you will have the opportunity to love again and to find the true love that your looking for. When you broke up with someone just think that the better person will come to your life soon. And that will be the greatest changes in your life, to know the person who will really love and appreciate you.

Break ups change the guilty party. Either for better or for worse.

Yes. My ex left and I found my self worth. Before him, I thought love wasn't for me. So when this guy said he loved me... I thought Really? Well he really didn't he disappeared my heart was broken. With the help of my friend I realized what we shared wasn't love . And that I do have self worth. My heart got mended and I found the love of my life. So yes a break up did change me.

I think breakups can change a person .. live and learn about people. You learn to not let people take advantage of you in a relationship. You learn to not accept being disrespected. You learn to recognize insecurity when you see it and not mistake it for love.

yes, break up did change me. Before I was that someone who easily love someone that show affection to me. But after I broke up with my ex, which so happen when i needed him most, it made me realize that i should not give everything to someone 'coz that someone might leave me and took everything I have including respect to myself. It made me stronger and face life with my head up despite all the pain it cause me.

I guess it depends upon the person on how they move on from break ups and how they learn and mature from it. Some people are not that positive enough to some situations like this especially if they have gone through a deep and serious relationships. Wherein they need to go for counseling for emotional depression!

It changed me, alright most of the time i would not think of myself... i was sort of selfless but with break ups and heart aches i changed and i learned to value myself more. i agree with the changes you have too, sometimes i think that well if it is too good to be true, then it probably is like that! its hard to say why or how but sometimes i just lose my trust in people... because someone did break your heart and thrown your trust to the dumps, i think there is that meanness in people... something that i tried to avoid thinking about before.

I believe that every phase of a relationship can bring the changes about in you. It isnt just the positive things that change us. the negative changes can have great impact too. Often it is the breakup of the relationship thazt hits us harder and what we remember the most. it can be what starts the change to appear.

my last break up was already 4 years ago..and yes..it really changed me..it changed me into a bad person..i started playing with other's feelings..but thank god, everything has changed now..i learnt a lot of things from the break up to the changed me..and now, i'm a new person..happy with someone i love..and never dared to play with other's feelings again...

Yes, a breakup does change one and I truly believe that it is supposed to change you for the better - as long as one takes the lessons I think and not play the blame game like so many of us love doing. With my last breakup that really hurt, my dad told me to see it as a break through rather than a breakup and it was really like a light bulb went on. You know? It was. In so many ways. I feel that people, including lovers, are in our lives for as long as they need to be and when that time is over, they exit...some way or other. Allowing that to happen effortlessly I feel, without fighting it, really helps with any pain that one may feel. Life is beautiful and Love is what it is all about - or should be about, in my honest opinion. (-:

You will learn from your mistake. :) If you repeat same mistake as always then it's a choice.

definitely yes.. perhaps breakups moves me forward.. i become optimistic the way i see myself, my life .. i become more open and understanding that this life without pain we are nothing .. because from it learning is a process which is we all knew that we grew up from it and become a better person .. so its good and made us inspired to move on ..

I have never been in a relationship. But I do believe that it will change you in someway whether it is a good or bad break up. Every experiences we encounter has a corresponding lesson to learn. It will help us become mature and handle the nest one better. We can see the mistakes we've made in the past. So we are making sure it wont happen again the next time.

Oh yes it changed me being spoiled and being possessive.

Reality bites. A lesson learned that one has to carefully reassess one's self, reflecting on what went wrong thus making us realize who we are and what we really want, thus making us better or bitter persons, lol! The important thing is that we LEARN, THINK, ACCEPT and GO ON with our life.

nice of you to say THANK YOU to your ex. usually, ex don't became friend. it only show that YOU MOVE ON and you are GOING UP and not down. but don't make yourself not to trust anymore. continue to LOVE. pray for it and ask GOD. If it is in your advantage to stay single, why not. being single doesn't means without family, friend and life. i got a sweetheart when i was in college. we broke up because she graduate leaving me behind ( i am a junior, she's senior). actually, there's no words said just she left. but there's no angry feeling ...i know someone will come to my life. and it did. on my first year of working as a nurse, i met my wife. and she's so gorgeous and loving! i learned that IF A PERSON IS NOT A BLESSING TO YOU...Break up is a blessing.