do u share mylot discussion with ur partner?
By shwetat195
@shwetat195 (628)
India
March 18, 2012 8:12am CST
i spend time on mylot and then i spend time discussing mylot with my hubby and we gradually start a discussion on one topic or the other. .we talk on length from one topic to another and now my hubby wants to participate in mylot as well. anyways, i was wondering if others also share mylot discussions with their spouse.
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16 responses
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
18 Mar 12
Hi Shweta!
There is nothing wrong in discussing issues discussed in mylot discussions with your partner. I feel that there could be some of the topics which could evince interest for both of you, but not all the topics.
Dupermo has given a good suggestion that if your hubby wants to join, he could join as your referral. Having said that your hubby needs to see if he has time for mylotting besides taking care of his professional life. I feel that one should have flair for writing and sharing his/her thoughts then only one could easily participate in mylot discussions.
I normally do not share mylot discussions with my spouse.
Have a great evening.
@dpk262006 (58679)
• Delhi, India
19 Mar 12
It is correct that if your hubby has time he should spend the time with you rather than mylotting. You are more important for him than mylot.
It is nice to hear that your use mylot and mylot discussions to de-stress yourself. And I also believe mylotting is one of the best course to get rid of our day to day tensions.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
19 Mar 12
hi deepak, thanks for ur view point. my hubby actually does not have time besides me...if he can give time to mylot , i wud ask him to give that time to me instead..:)...but yes...he might join as my referral...sometime in the future .
i agree that not all topics can be discussed as some relate to him or related members. i sometimes use mylot as a cushion to absorb my stress...it acts like a stress buster so hubby need to necessarily be a part of it...thanks
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
19 Mar 12
hm...something important than mylot...yeah i agree...mylot is not the only thing between husband and wife...life is beyond that... however few discussions are a worth discussion with hubby for me...thanks for participating
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
20 Mar 12
..i guess many mylotters prefer to ask suggestions abt relations here....thanks again
@Inderjeetkaur (944)
• India
3 Apr 12
This is indeed a very good idea as you also get to know your husband's view point on different topics. I am single, but yes I do share myLot topics with my mom, sister and friends. I ask them about their opinion on the topic, tell them what I have written and also about other's responses as well.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
3 Apr 12
yes, when we have nothing esle to talk about i really prefer to talk on topics from mylot...as mentioned by you it is good to know others view point...thanks for participation
@fantabulus (4000)
• India
23 Aug 12
My husband has not time to hear about my happiness or sorrows so I dont like to share mylot discussion with my husband. But yes I shared with my daughters and they feel happy after hearing all these.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
23 Aug 12
good to hear that you share with your daughters...they are ur ultimate friends for ever and you are helping them grow and develop through these discussions....happy mylotting
@seemared (771)
•
19 Mar 12
I do share my mylot responses and discussions with my partner over phone..he says he would check them when time comes for free and I know it has happened like once or twice..he is always kind of busy but helps me out with suggesting a few topics and so on and to discuss on more social matters rather than sharing personal experiences unless suggestions are required for such experiences..
it's nice though I ask suggestions from him and he says he would create an account under my referral but seems it is not going to happen anywhere soon.
@seemared (771)
•
22 Mar 12
haha...hmm...he kind of never like typing things..that's why I think he sort of don't read them..at home I would login into my account and make him read my posts on free time..for that he wouldn't mind..but when at work and at free times there..he won't//he would just say to tell him what I wrote while I say everything is written and if you are so interested, login..
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
20 Mar 12
same here...hubbies are kinda too buz for mylott...or i wud say they know us so well just dont want to disturb at mylot....
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@Daisy_22 (1229)
• Philippines
17 Jul 12
I really wanted to but the problem is that they are not computer literate...Another reason is that,they have a bad eye sight.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
17 Jul 12
that's unfortunate. however you can discuss some worth discussion while dinner, tea time etc etc....
it really helps me and my hubby to understand life together and it is some thing quality as well which is different from the normal chores of life
@soulist (2985)
• United States
21 Mar 12
If there is a discussion that really got me thinking and I wanted to see what my boyfriend's thoughts would be I would talk to him about it. Or if I read something interesting and I wanted to share I would. Mylot helps give me things to have a deep conversation with my boyfriend.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
21 Mar 12
actually even i find myself talking with my partner in length on ceratin topics just because it happened on mylot....and which is not related to our life...i wud say thats mylot's trademark
@sinnedsejatnom (1311)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
I sometimes share mylot discussions to my partner especially if the story is interesting. Lately, there has been many great discussions that I saw and I never miss to tell it to my wife. :)
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
20 Mar 12
thats interesting to know...i wud say certain quality discussions are worth sharing
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
19 Mar 12
thanks for participating. yeah i have also obserevd that in some discussions i need some opinion from my hubby...to help me jot down my view point.. it helps me...thanks again
@surekharathi (14146)
• India
19 Mar 12
YEs some time I shared my mylot experience with my partner. Some time shared about mylotter friends also. I shared some laughing discussions also.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
20 Mar 12
thats so nice....tahts actually makes a healthy relation..thanks
@LovingMyBabies (85288)
• Valdosta, Georgia
19 Mar 12
I have talked with my husband about things here. A lot of times mylot has helped us with our relationship to see things in a different light. It is great being here for so many reasons!
He doesn't want to join here because he is terrible at spelling and typing but I definitely discuss things with him about here. I have gotten advice for him here and prayers.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
19 Mar 12
wow...this is what i was looking for...i have seen and also been a part of discussions related to relations and have helped me understand the life beyond my relation...going through different view point is also very important to understand life...thanks
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
21 Mar 12
My partner lives in Africa I live in the Netherlands. So there is nothing to share, also he would not understand (I think) what mylot is (different culture, less education, lives by the day/moment).
But I do share nearly daily intersting discussions and thoughts (including mine) with the people around me.
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
21 Mar 12
thats interesting to know. i always feel the need to discuss mylot discussion with people around me. for me the discussion is complete only after i have discussed the same either with my partner or with my other family members...thanks
@thelmadacullo112659 (642)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
I have no hubby here in mylot..He had no account here so i dont share my discussion to him..........
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
19 Mar 12
so its gud for u...dont have to worry abt anything and just being happy doing mylotting
@jasminjasmin (98)
• United Arab Emirates
19 Mar 12
Sometimes I discuss...and it depends on the topic...Mostly about kids/parenting...
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
20 Mar 12
yeah, i agree that certain topics are sensitive to be discussed with partner...anyways happy mylotting
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
19 Mar 12
thanks for ur viewpoint...i understand ..few discussions are like a cushion to absorb our feelings at times...especially whn the partner is not around or when it is related with the partner or the family...mylot helps as a gud cushion
@shwetat195 (628)
• India
18 Mar 12
so i understand u do not want to discuss all mylot discussions with hubby. i can understand at time few discussions might not b a gud idea to avoid situations at home...anyways thanks for sharing.