Being Friends with your Niece's nanny...

Philippines
March 18, 2012 9:33am CST
My brother have an 8-month old baby; he and his wife decided to get a nanny because they are both working. When the nanny finally came, i was asked to train her while they both work and so i did. I trained her for 2 months and showed her the routine. she was about 9 years older than me and as the time passed, i saw her work and was very pleased with her. she was hard working, patient and had the initiative. And because she had to be away from her family (because we were overseas), I listened to everything she relayed. How she misses her 2 kids and her husband, likewise she listened to me about how i missed my mom and my younger siblings. because of that, we shared the same sentiments and became friends. when we were in the airport and i was to go back home, she was the one crying and not my brother nor my sister in law. haha. I was just wondering what you think about having a friendly relationship with your maids or nannies... do you think its improper? thanks in advance
4 responses
• India
29 Jun 12
It is not improper to have a friendly relationship with your niece"s nanny. Because when you consider someone a friend, you stick up for them no matter what and you shouldn"t care what other people say about that. You should not listen to what others say and be yourself. Also, don"t do what someone else wants you to do. Do what your heart tells you to do.
@ifa225 (14460)
• Indonesia
19 Mar 12
Hi JD, i used to make friend too with my nanny. i take her as a friend or one of my family, but then as the time goes by and our relation become closer, she do her job just as she want. often leave my kids just to answer a phone and have a nice chat with the other person in that line. watching TV and ignore all the house chore, then i just fired her..
@heartbit (237)
• Philippines
18 Mar 12
i dont think it is improper to be have a friendly relationship with maids or nannies. our housemaid knows more of my escapades than my mom and sometimes, helps me get away from a potential sermon coming my way, haha. she tells me her life in the province and i listen, in a way, we get along together.
@Runite (307)
• United States
18 Mar 12
There's nothing wrong with a friendship between employer and employee but you should keep it at that and don't go further than that as it might cause some trouble for you.