Do u have favoritism with ur kids/
@thelmadacullo112659 (642)
Philippines
4 responses
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
19 Mar 12
No I don't. To me they are all special but in complete different ways.
For example my eldest daughter will alway be my most most most most beloved one. It sounds weird but the rest is used to it esp. to the many times of most :-D by now it sounds like something funny. My youngest daugter is my biggest most special surprise baby. This makes her feel special.
My son is my most special guy. Always attentive, helpful and I tell hem frequently how happy I am he is my son. My other daughter is the most creative one ( and best animator) and by now best friend (since she still lives at home).
Most interesting thing is (now I mention it) that they all are very creative, attentive, helpful, social, polite. We are all very close and they are close to eachother as well. It really touches my heart how they treat eachother and take care of eachother. They are all special in my life, but also in the lives of eachother. I want them to know that so for each of them I have picked out something special, something they should be proud about about themselves. They are and also know that they have way more talents and their siblings are not better or more beloved as they are.
@thelmadacullo112659 (642)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
No matter how u treat ur kids , no problem for that provided ur with them guiding and caring with all ur love and affections.......Thanks mylotter in responsing........
@jupijupi77 (257)
• Malaysia
19 Mar 12
Nope..I don't have any favoritism with my child.I love them all equally.I don't want they being jealous each others.That's not good.Everybody have their advantages.Can't compare with anybody.Nobody is perfect.
@thelmadacullo112659 (642)
• Philippines
19 Mar 12
We have aalmost of the same idea.......thnx for the response
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
19 Mar 12
Hi thelmadacullo,
No, I never had favoritism toward any of my girls. While I did not treat or discipline them all the same, I did and do very much love them all the same. They are all grown now. When they were younger, however, I treated them each as the unique individuals that they are. I honestly can't even fathom how a parent could in their hearts favor one child over another. I know it happens but I've never understood it.
@honest_efforts100 (1607)
• India
29 Jun 12
I don’t have kids but I can tell you for a fact that my mother always favored my small bro when we were growing up and upto date. Its no secret favorism exists and there is nothing anyone can do about it.