I Feel Guilty For Knowing An Illegal Recruiter

That is sad. It really pays to check into things doesn't it? Alittle research early on can save alot of money and heart ache later on.

That is really tragic knowing that there are people like that. I am sorry that you feel that way but I think for as long as you do not have any direct participation with it then you should not blame yourself from all of those that got victimized. I just hope this woman gets caught and would stop victimizing more people ever again.

Uguess you should have investigate the relation ship more down the line to make sure

I feel sorry for those victims and for you, too.. But don't be too hard on yourself.. You were just trying to help.. I guess the only flaw that you got there was trusting someone whom you don't really know.. You didn't mention if you got acquainted personally.. But we can never tell how things would end up.. There are even cases where people get betrayed even by their family members or someone so dear to them.. Let's just hope for the best.. Pray for those people to be able to move forward and for that sick person to be rewarded by karma..

Its hard sometimes knowing who we can and can't trust. You did not know and you meant well. I can understand feeling bad about it. But you can't change it now. Did you give the police all the information you had on what was going on? Because really you too were just an innocent person swept up in the con and the lies. I hope this person is caught!

I won't gonna put a blame on you, but I have to admit that you do have a part wherein you can be guilty. It was you who introduced them. I'm not gonna bash you more, but all I can say is that you must not trust anyone just because of the same family name. We can't undone on what had happened but you know learned a lesson.

oh that is bad then.. sometimes we never know the true intentions of other people. you should really be careful.. and may try to apologize to the people who have endorsed?

Hi, Neildc, I'm sorry about your situation. I want to tell you too that you should not feel guilty about this. Yes, you have introduced this person to people who got scammed, but they should have been cautious. In my country there are many stories like this one. Illegal companies recruit people to work abroad, they take money from them and after that disappear. But it's clear that those who fall in the trap are too naive. I think that you should report the case to the police.

You shouldn't be. The people you recruit must at least make an investigation too or made background search. Many of the people nowadays is looks very trustworthy person. But when you know them better you can see their real bad intentions. At least you learned a lesson. Always remind the people you recruit that they do also their own background check.

Oh, i hope you don't do it again,and it is danger to other and also money spending.I hope that a lesson to them that they will be careful in the next time.have a great day

Oh man, I just got email from my college friend (who I haven't met for some years), she told me her husband lose $10,000 being scam from working abroad. Those people promise him working at UK but then run with the money. I feel sorry for her. So I kind of understand how those people feel for loosing their money like that. I know you must feel terrible about it since you the one who introduce her to them but this is not your fault and I think those people who lose money understand that. Just show them your support that you are at their side by try to contact her at any chances. Good luck

These days facebook becomes the fakeook in real terms.Beleiving people you met in facebook would not be wise decision from my poin of view.Hopefully you have not get down deep in to this scam.Surely,those people should be charged by law enforcement policy before they do harm other people.

While I do believe that you should have done a little research into what this friend/relative was offering, you should not blame yourself. You had no idea what they were up to. They invested two years into getting close to you and your wife, building your trust, so it was only natural that you would believe that their intentions were honest. You were only trying to help; help this relative build their "dream" and your friends/acquaintances find a great opportunity for work. Let those who were misled know that you are sincerely sorry and you had no idea, that you too were in fact conned, but do not blame yourself. If you want to help these people who cashed out thousands of dollars for this false opportunity, gather them up and build a lawsuit against the person who deceived you all. Best wishes.

It's peoples like this goal to scam you and people like you, remember you just think you're helping. and they know that. They feed on people who don't know and get their payout.

Oh wow, thats not good at all. I know that you feel guilty about it but you had no idea at all that this person would do that. She used getting close to you and your family. She manipulated your kindness and its is a violation to the sincerity of you all. These people are very good at what they do. So they are pretty craft to get so many people to trust them. Like I said dont take this on your shoulders. Count yourself lucky that you have not received any legal cases against you. I hope that this person is help responsible somehow.

I hate people who profit from scamming other people. I know that it's not your or your wife's fault for that illegal recruiter for being what he is. I wonder if you can give his information to the police? Or post in the internet the name and picture of this person so that he can no longer fool other people. I wonder if the person that you are referring to is the same one that went viral a few weeks ago where this guy recruited so many people in the Visayas area. This illegal recruiter even used another person's name but because of Facebook and the internet, those who were scammed were able to get the real name of the crook. You don't have anything to do with that crook, nor did you benefit from it so there is no need for you to feel guilty. Had you known that that person was a crook, I'm sure you wouldn't have recommended the said job to people you know. You did it out of good will and I hope that the people that you know will also see that you had nothing to do with the criminal activities of that illegal recruiter.

that would be a terrible thing for sure. i would also feel guilty even though you didnt know this person is a con. id sure be careful of anything she/he told me from now on. so sorry Neil.

There are alot of scams going on out there and they have come up with more ingenious ways of scamming people out of their money. You had no idea as far as that goes so you should not feel guilty. Just be glad that you did not lose money. It is a shame that others of course did. As long as there are people to scam these types of people will keep on doing it and as the laws abroad are different from ours like in Africa for example, these people are so hard to find and prosecute. I have a brother in law who was scammed just last year by someone who appeared to be a woman and he went her thousands of dollars so that she/he would come to the United States and they could be married. He as you know fell for it hook line and sinker. He sold everything he had and borrowed against his annuity and is now living on a little over 400 dollars a month. He sent these people over 17 thousand dollars. They are good at what they do. There is no doubt about that.

Hi Neil How are you dear? Well, unfortunate thing to happen for sure. And confirms with my belief - Money is a Spoiler. Anyways, right now, I do understand the reasons of you feeling guilty. But then dear, there is not much you can do about it now. You can console yourself telling yourself - you cannot write the destiny of anyone. And I know, words of consolation will not help as knowing you I feel you have a Heart and that is another aspect that it is the people with hearts who suffer more pain. Such people (like the friend) bring a bad name to not only friendship but also to many other things. I hope you come over this pain soon.

Maybe you can help those people. You were friends for two years I guess she was able to disclose some personal details about her. Is she missing now and hiding from her obligation? If that is the case, that's really too bad and I understand what you're feeling right now.