Dont fall in love

If we still get hurt even if we don't love 100%, then why not love 100%?

@ swrlz not giving 100% minimizes the damage of the heartbreak, @ chicgale the other person does not need to know, am just saying you keep it in your mind, your are the one who knows how much you are giving in, in-terms of trust and effort, you know it in the back of your mind, you give room for errors.

I know! hahahaha Me myself can't be with someone if I don't love them 100%. I was just saying that I always kept telling my friends who had a heartbreak with their exes. :D

Yep you have good point "dont go into a relationship with the bad person", but sometimes the ones that appear to be good, mess you up at the end, thats the reason why you will get the heartbreak in the first place, because you thought they were the right person, until you discoverer the other side, all am saying is give room for errors.

There is always a way to know that the person is wrong. Following the intuition is necessary. If right in the beginning intuition says something is amiss about the person it is better to just avoid him. Also many people say don't go by looks. Personality is the main thing. In real world, this does not work. If we cannot like a person right away probably we will never fall in love with them. What we do in this situation is to warm up to his behavior. One little hesitation in the beginning is enough to figure out that the future of the relationship is going to be a disaster. Men should not chase women who play hard to get and need to be lured first. Women should not say yes to men they dislike in the beginning. The attraction has to be mutual. If it is not the case then love is gonna cause heartbreak.

True, but that only happens if you do not love that person seriously but the minute you are truly in love, it is hard to resist falling in love fully.

Yeah you will still get hurt, but my theory is if you don't give in completely, you will minimize the pain of the break-up, but am not sayin you should be expecting a break-up in your relationship, m just saying its better to protect your fragile heart.

I don't know how to explain this, but I have fallen in love before, and I know the feeling, You don't want to think of anything else but the person you love, its like she controls you unknowingly, then suddenly you discover heart aching staff, m tellin you its painful. So my point is love her, but keep in mind that he/she is not perfect so don't expect too much out of them by giving all your trust, give room for mistakes and be ready to absorb them as they come.

yes i agree with your option as if we did it 70% love,then partner also start to get discourage ,so do it either 100% or directly 0%

My reason for this is often times when your girlfriend sees you love her too much, they sometimes take advantage of it, but i guess it all depends.