Does it matter?
By atwilson
@atwilson (540)
Indonesia
March 20, 2012 1:58am CST
I am sure everybody ever felt in love. Falling in love is definitely a grace from God. However, I wonder sometimes people (likely girls) prefer being to be a single rather than having a relationship. From my surveys, most of them said the same reasons, such as to focus on study, religion, more freedom, etc.
So, How do you think about being single? Does it matter for you?
Does it give you happiness or instead?
d0n't you feel lonely? :)
Regards,
Wilson
6 responses
@no_ming (137)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
Hello atwilson :)
Welcome to mylot..
By the way, being single is a choice.. It is true that some women wants to be single because of the things that you have just said.. Me, I am single but I don't make my self available since for me it is not my priority right now because of many reasons that I'm the only one knows..hehehe. I know the right man in the right time will come, God and I discuss it already. So I'm happy being single lady!! :D
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
20 Mar 12
Hi no_ming,
thanks for responding anyway. :)
Well, i like the way you think of it.. ^^ However, lets say there's a guy who falls in love with you. He promises to do anything to make you believe (i'm sure you know).
Will it change your mind? In other word, Is it necessary for you to still close your heart? what will you do to that guy?
@no_ming (137)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
wow! what a tough questions!! .. Honestly, it depends upon the situation, if I like and love him too then why not .. But if I don't have the same feeling to him I will tell him directly what I really feel. I will tell him he deserves someone better than me that will love him back in return.
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
20 Mar 12
Alright, by saying so, it seems that you tend to be likely reliable.. hehe :)
however, i just want to warn you to be careful to select a guy although he has done so many things to you. You know, one of my friends ever experienced such relationship. at first the guy was so kind. Unfortunately, he broke her heart just becoz the girl studied abroad. He couldn deal w/ Long distance Rl.
another reasons that they had different faith. What's your opinion? was it good decision?
who was wrong?
@moy2x_09 (10)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
Hi! atwilson...
Yeah your right!everybody felt inlove...and mostly girls prefer being to be a single rather than having a relationship it is because they don't want to get hurt and be broken in the end, though they already knows that when you're in a relationship trials will happen, but girls are so emotional and they easily get hurt. Sometimes it gives a good outcome being secretly fall inlove than to show it to avoid so much pain. And surely, right man in the right time wil come...:')
moy2x_09
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
21 Mar 12
Hello moy.. :)
Wonderful! you likely know the nature of most girls. However, "the right man" will not come if you are never hurt by "the bad guy", as quoted by one of my friend. "Love is like journey, you will not be always in happiness, because the challenges always come". So, i think it's tentative. :)
In conclusion, Girls are hard to be understood. hehe
@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
2 Jun 12
I am sure that all of us did fell in love and have felt that we have loved one time in our lives... or maybe to those who haven't loved someone yet, i am sure they yearn to know how it feels to be in love... and to have soomeone care for you. I have friends who have never been in a relationship, they might have admired someone in their lives, but never got in a relationship with them... true... but we talk about it and they wonder if something was wrong with them because no one bothered to get to know them... I tell them maybe they have not met the person yet and at least they are spared the numerous nights of crying for the person who broke your trust, and your heart...
Well, of course to those who have loved, and even to those who haven't we all have somehow felt when will our partners come.. and we always hope that it is sooner because society sort of dictates that when you are single you must be lonely! Which... i think should not be the case! People should be respected for their choices, it is true that some women or men would prioritize their career, and other things than finding love or than to spend time dating and breaking up. This should really change. We should not always ask women or men who are of age and are not yet married when they are going to do just that, because we should respect their choices.
@jd107nette (1454)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
hmm... i've been single for all my life LOL... I wish i could say, "it's fun to be single!!" but i can't... I do not have any idea (personally) as to how life changes when someone comes along and gives you happiness of falling in love.
From what i heard from all those who have been in love, they do say such phrases like theyre free when they are single., but i think theyre just saying such things so they wouldn't focus on the hard side.
as for me, one day i'd have a say to questions like this. haha
@atwilson (540)
• Indonesia
21 Mar 12
haha, Alright jd107nette, I know that every decision has its own benefits and disadvantages. The most important one that you can enjoy your life, but enjoy it in good way not in wrong way.. :)
Being a single may be a good choice for you, however if you can get one. Why not? :D
@Marvz18 (106)
• Philippines
20 Mar 12
Well if you would ask me before I met my wife, I would say that yes being single is the best, since you can go where ever you want, hangout with your friends as long as you want and do what ever you want... and yes you will get to a point where you are being left out since your friends are having there own families. but really I love being single... But after I met my wife I never regret being married since she complete me...:D
@honest_efforts100 (1607)
• India
7 Jul 12
I have no problem such like that.I think eating in the morning is very needed for good helth.A long time from night you are not eating anything.Thats why you have to need food for picking up energy.For eat in the morning you have to go to bed early,take some exercise ,take little dinner at night.If you follow this I think you will be ready to eat in the morning.