Sometimes I just have to let him WIN,

Dear he's a terrible companion to you, I would never be with someone that said bad things about me. Careful, in few years he might break you, and your self esteem.

Why don't you speak to him itself about it?! I mean, ask him whether he still loves you or was he in love with you earlier because you were lean and skinny?! It is not like you would be the same forever?! Saying that you are ugly is one thing which I hated. Is that the way he looks at you and you still call him your bf?! I don't think he accepts you the way you are and finds the inner beauty of yours appealing. Speak out with him and see what to do about the relationship.

um. Are you sure that this is the kind of relationship you want to be in? He might be very nice, but he doesn't sound like he appreciates you. It's one thing to encourage you to be healthy, but another thing to tell you you're ugly. You deserve to be with someone who listens to you. You deserve to be with someone who will lose the argument because HE doesn't want to lose YOU.

i am shocked to see that he is calling you ugly, when he met you he found you attractive, obviously, what a cruel thing to say, you are the same person with or without weight, talk to him and tell him how hurtful he is by saying that to you, my EX said that to me once, hence being my ex, now i have lost all the weight i am getting noticed again by other men and he hates it, his loss, if he wasn't so cruel about how i looked, he would still have me, i have been dieting and i feel great, maybe some light exercise may help you lose a little bit, get some healthy food and do this for yourself, my ex is fat, overweight and i don't find him attractive any more, but i would never tell him how he looks or pass a comment about his weight because we are actually good friends now, tell your man that you are the same person big or small and if he doesn't like how you look, then go away, i would not take that from anyone no matter how much i love them, he's being horrible

I would nbever stay with that kind of person if I was in your situation. It doesn't seem like he loves you at all. It seems as if he was just attracted by your physical appearance and your lean and slim body shape earlier. This is not love at all. All of us go through different phases in our life and our body changes but true love is not just about liking another person's outer appearance. Your bf does not deserve your care and love. He is not worth it.

don`t be sad , but the ugly truth is that he doesnt love you.. and i think that you dont have work with him anymore.. once you are pregnant and have a child it is possible to be without father .. and i`m sure that you dont want this , right?

why you don`t invite him for talking from heart to heart why you don`t ask him talk when both of you had no emotions??

Darling, you need to know your worth and sometimes losing somebody isn't such a bad thing especially if they're treating you badly. Sometime ago I posted a discussion fairly similar to this with respect to the weight issue,a former friend of mine and his ex wife. I can't paste the link cause I don't qualify for that as yet, but you can take a read the title is "She's too fat". This may sound cold, but if a man can change how he treats you because you gained a few pounds, he isn't worth it. If he really loved you, as I advised some men to do, he would gently let you know the weights bothering him, and work with you towards losing some weight, not putting you down, that's not love. Don't ever accept from a man him telling you, you're ugly. Sounds to me like he's verbally abusive and sweetie, you don't need that. Losing him is not such a horrible thing, 'cause from where I'm sitting he sounds like a very mean man. In the meantime, work on the losing the weight....not for him but for you, know that you're beautiful, and work on getting back to the person you were before this punk enterd your life. Best of luck in working things out.