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I don't know what to say but i am much more like you i too don't like someone to point me to read the guidelines every time.I would like that person to tell me directly then to pointing me to read it.Its assumed that whoever is a member here has already read the guidelines.

I agree with you - life is too short to worry on petty things; just get out there and enjoy yourself. Everyone makes mistakes at some time in their lives as nobody is perfect. I'm quite new to MyLot and am still learning on a day-to-day basis. I must admit, I am a stickler for correct spelling and punctuation, but I've always taken a huge interest in the written word. Sometimes I notice misspellings but as long as I can get the general gist of what is being written about then I've got no problem with that.

Some of the older members do it to try to help some of the New members here, while others do it just to do it. I know there are many who have come here from time to time and started a New discussion that is against the TOS, and many might not be aware that they are doing it, or start one not realizing it will be deleted. I know myself I have accidently started some myself before. Personally what people need to remember most here, is this site is not about $$, it is about having Fun and sometimes people might forget this.

Hi Ecaron, When someone points out the guidelines or suggests someone to read them it is to help not only that person but others who read it. By posting discussions and responses that are against the guidelines that person is not only losing themselves money but others as well. And unlike the complaining you put up with at home, you can chose to ignore a discussion if you don't like it here.

When a topic is not to our liking, we can (as we are informed in the Guidelines ) move on to the next one. We don't have to read it if we are going to get upset by it Please realise that what some of us read as 'complaining' will be read by others as 'advising' too. Some are happy to read what others are fed up with seeing By the way, those who don't read them will not know what they are doing wrong - unless they read the topics posted by those who are "complaining". It is easier for some to read a discussion than it is for them to read the Guidelines. Obviously because we are not all the same and we don't all like the same things. Sad world it would be if we did don't you think?

Well my dear I'm sorry that you consider pointing out the guidelines complaining, I consider it education and helping. Truth be told I can understand the exasperation at times of those who've been here longer than newbies like myself, having to see the same questions over and over, questions that can be answered if people would just read. I don't think they're complaining, I think they're actually trying to be helpful, because yes granted people can read the guidelines but the sad reality is people are too lazy to read it. But I do understand your frustration, and hey mylot is all about expressing, and even venting, so sounds like you're under some pressure there, well you're in the right place to let it all out. But thanks I do enjoy my time here. Mylot is really the place to be. Happy Mylotting :-)

When I find a discussion as you mention above, I skip it and move onto another discussion. I've been a member for quite some time and do enjoy it here but I read the guidelines almost 6 years ago. I sure can't recall everything I read but know enough to stay away from starting discussions that mention different ways to earn on the internet. In other words, seeking referrals.

Whew my head is spinning! Another complaint discussion! Well we all are entiteld to our opinons and I agree it can get annoying to see all the responses about guidelines this and guidelines that but we do this to help advise the other mylotters, so they can grow with us AND so we can help prevent more complaining later on.

I like MyLot, even when I say away as I'm here more than 2 years and it happens, I don't feel like staying for too long It's the best place to earn money in my opinion.

I'm not sure what you mean about people complaining? There are some discussions about asking people to read the guidelines because so many get their discussions deleted for being poll discussions. I don't make discussions about them. I just avoid commenting on them.

Yeah I try to enjoy my life right now with follow some discussion in My Lot...,