How would you know if a guy is cheating on you?

Philippines
March 21, 2012 3:30am CST
Is it really true that part of being in love is eventually getting hurt? Why can't we be all honest and loyal to our partners? Is there really a happy ending love affair? Is there really MR. Right? Why can't love be simple and happy. Why do we have to be hurt before we learn our mistakes? I know i sound a bit stupid with all my questions. i just don't know why. It's not that i'm so negative with my life but with everything that's been happening around you cannot really identify who's true or not, who's sincere and who's just playing around. i just wanna share my thoughts.
6 responses
@bonding2 (219)
• South Africa
21 Mar 12
love might eventually get you hurt ,that is part of the fun . if a guy is cheating on you ,he will be very secretive with his phone and would not answer some calls in you presence . His schedules are going to change because he also need to make time for the other woman .
21 Mar 12
if a guy is cheatin on you.... he's cold in ur relation dosnt even bother to sleep with you...
@jinky2012 (438)
• Philippines
25 Apr 12
yes that is love really is. Sometimes get hurt,sometimes made me happy.That's life.Its just ok if the guy will get hurt this time.If you are still single that's normal that guy can able to look at somebody else but you know even they are doing that they have really their own love,They are just testing you how could you past i. But if you are committed to each other, you are married already then he did that.That is not good already. There's no reason to do that to you.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
21 Mar 12
there is no guarantee that a partner will be loyal and honest to the relationship. however, we can choose the kind of partner we will have. if that person has stories with him about dishonesty and disloyalty, better not risk a relationship with that person. unless the certainty of renewal is established. there is a way of knowing by asking the person involved, other than that, do not believe in hearsay. confront the person involved especially your partner.
@Mashnn (4501)
21 Mar 12
Not always, some people still remains faithful to their partners. If someone is cheating or doing something behind your back, you will definitely get that instinct that something is wrong and most probably wherever you feel some doubt, there would be something going on somewhere. Do not ignore that instinct but try to find out why you feel the way you do.
@TheIzers (680)
22 Mar 12
I would say Mr. Right does exist it is jus a matter of time that you will find him. So be happy time will tell.
@maratus (184)
• Indonesia
21 Mar 12
it's easy to see from their change behavior, it's also can known when they are feeling dumb when we ask about something...,