Can you handle being 'bad mouthed'?

Yes I occasionally bad mouth at other people for their being not qualified to their field of work.When I bad mouth them that is due to the fact that they are wasting not just my time but also the time of others who are lining up just to have a payment or other legal things done yet this government employee just comb her hair and was just chatting to her other mate in the office.I do not wanted to bad mouth her but due to fact that she was already not doing her duties well that is why I do her some lessons to be cautious for her work we also have too much work to do.

Let them bad mouth me all they want, and I'll do my share of it.

Seriously speaking bad mouthing or being bad mouthed is not a very pleasant thing to do.I did it a few times under very annoying circumstances i was confronted and i said Yes i did it but to be sincere it wasnt very nice i have been bad mouthed so many ties but i have learnt to take it as it comes though painful especially when it comes through falsehood.I however try as much as i can to avoid doing it

I am the one being bad mouthed. The issue is regarding money and they kept on giving the fault on me. They tell me issues that is not true and they put colors on everythin. Actually, I hate all of them and I wished them that they will experience this so that they will understand my situation. The reality is that people are only good to you when they are earning extra money from you or if they are benefiting from your goodness. But for a few peso, everything will be change! As if there is nothing good that you ever done. As for me, I don't care what they are thinking and doing behind my back. They kept on whispering things that they thought will never reach me. I am taking everything as though I haven't heard anything. I know they will feel better if they see me feeling bad about what they are doing. I don't want to give them the opportunity to be happy with what they are doing.

There should be reapect among people my friend. As we all know, if you don't want to be bad mouthed by anybody, you should not start it. I can't stand people who will do that to me.

I am at a point in my life where I make acquaintances but very few friends. I don't have time for the drama and such that accompanies these things. If someone says something bad about me I probably don't hear about it for that reason. And if someone tries to tell me about something another might have said about me, I stop them with something like "If that person wants to tell me something, fine. Otherwise, I don't want to hear it". Once you let someone tell you something someone else said about you it never stops. And becomes a game almost. Only a hurtful one. I mind my own business and don't bother anyone. The only exception would be if I saw a neighbor or someone abusing a child or animal then I would call the authorities immediately. But that's about it. What's that old saying, if you can't say something nice...?

no!!! i do not want to be bad mouthed so i do not do bad mouthing to anyone! My parents taught me better than that and they raised me well! I keep in mind that we have to "react intelligently through unintelligent treatment!"

My mother always taught me to be careful with what im saying and told me that our words can cut deeper than a sword, it can hurt other people and it would be hard to heal the wound, so I do not like to bad mouthing other people and i really hate being bad mouthed. I have a bad temper, and when someone anger me I can attack him/her and I dont care whether she/he is older than me or not. so my neighbor is 60 years old woman, she was bad mouthing me and by chance i heard it. and I was really angry, i throw everything and hit my door loudly. I never bad mouthing her or anyone in my neighboorhood but it seems they really like to pick mistake to badmouthing other people. I told my mother, if anyone dare to bad mouthing me I would slap their mouth and they should be careful because when i said something I would do it. really, I do not like when people badmouthing other people. if they have something to say it is better to tell the person as in a constructive critic instead of badmouthing the person.

I don't like anybody who badmouthed me. I only badmouthing someone if I heard or found out that they were talking behind my back. If I heard that a close friend of mine who badmouthed me, I will definitely confront her and ask her how true it was. I will know right away if she is lying or not if ever she will deny it.