love marriage vs arrange arriage---pick your choice

India
November 21, 2006 5:06am CST
which one do u prefer? i prefer love marriage..
8 responses
• India
26 Jun 07
My feeling and Suggestion for all Boys and Girls is: Whether it is Arranged Marriage or Love Marriage First of all we should be a lovable person means we should develop the sense of manners, right of responsibility, art of creating humorous environment, take it easy, sharing and etc., at the same time we should always try to make out what type of partner we need like qualities, attitude, and etc., Suppose we are in love first we have to check whether we are loving as if the opportunity came or the lover is suitable for you in all ways and also can they able to manage with your parents and etc., in your presence/absense(means out of station) and can they handle all situations and How their sharing nature and understanding nature and etc., When we got for arranged marriage then we should have the patience and through this we can achieve the love of God also so this makes your partner to change into your frequency but needs creative art of active role ....... My case I am unmarried and still have no lover. I am prepared for both I have the confidence I can make my life and life partner both happy on what situations may be... also whether its a love marriage or arranged marriage In my case whether its love marriage or arranged marriage = simply a MARRIAGE.
• India
3 Jul 07
thank you for selecting my opinion as best response
@nottygal (154)
• India
7 Dec 06
id definitely go with love marriage as i feel thrs more of trust n understanding in it than can be achieved in arranged marriage
• India
7 Dec 06
yeah true. more trust n understanding is achieved. i completely agree with you.
• United States
7 Dec 06
I prefer love marriage however that is what we do in the United States.. If I came from another part of the world and the culture was for arranged marraige then I imagine I would know no different...
• India
7 Dec 06
ok. keep posting. thanks for the reply.
@wisconsin26 (3859)
• United States
3 Jul 07
i perfer love marriage.. i mean if it is a arranged marriage will it really last? I don't think so i think two people have to love each other and want to be with each other to want to marry one another.. Maybe i am wrong but if someone arranged my married i'd skip the country lol... ok ok i don't know if i would be able to we must have the same things in common but what if they don't i'd be living very unhappy i would think.
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
26 Jun 07
Definantly a love marriage, how on earth could you marry someone that was arranged for you ????
@Galena (9110)
26 Jun 07
the only reason I would ever marry someone is because I love them and I want to be with them for the rest of my life. what other people want doesn't come into it at all. if someone loves you then they will not be so presumptuous as to think they know your heart better than you do
@parimi (948)
• India
30 Nov 06
i prefer arraged marriage
@ankagar (1034)
• India
5 Dec 06
I prefer love marriage