i hate my husband when he do that

Indonesia
March 22, 2012 10:08pm CST
do you ever hate your husband for somethings that you don't like to do. like put dirty shirt in your bed. your husband don't want to help you with the housekeeping etc. but sometime, you miss him a lot when he went to work.
7 responses
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
23 Mar 12
of course.. because you love him even you don`t like one of his bad habit, but overal you still miss him.. iam indonesian too akmalia... nice to see many indonesian here
• Indonesia
25 Mar 12
nice to meet you too
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
28 Mar 12
yes akmalia i do hope your husband more love you everyday.. always nice to see many indonesian here
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
23 Mar 12
My husband puts his dirty clothes on my bed, too and he has other bad habits like leaving the all the cupboards open instead of closing them when he has used them, but I think that those things are small things and I live with them, because I love my husband. I do most of the cleaning and all of the laundry, but I spend more time at home than my husband does so I think that it is okay that I do most of the housework. We have many pets and we take care of them together. My husband helps me walk the dog and sometimes he cleans the rabbit's and guinea pig's cages. It is nice that I don't have to take care of the pets alone.
• Indonesia
18 Nov 12
good to you
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
23 Mar 12
how i wish my wifey would see the same on me
• United States
23 Mar 12
Sounds like maybe your husband should show you a little more respect. He may work but he needs to realize that you do too. Have a talk with him about this and hopefully he will stop putting his dirty shirts on your bed and will help you more around the house.
• Indonesia
25 Mar 12
ameen
• China
23 Mar 12
haha,Sometimes I also hate my boyfriend's temper. He is not patient.I can accept it when he is in bad mood.Otherwise I will voice out.I told him about this several times and now he is better in this aspect. I think you can talk to your husband seriously if you think his behavior is not good. You rely on your husband very much, right?haha
• Indonesia
25 Mar 12
what if my husband snap me and he ignore me
@samson1 (738)
• Jamaica
23 Mar 12
I do not think you hate your husband; but you dislike some of the things he does. I think that you have a very good relationship with your husband. Therefore, you can arrange to have a healthy discussion with him to speak about any topic (including expressing to each other, the things that both of you dislike being done to each of you). But of course, you already know these things and have discussed some of the topics on several occassions. Continue to do so, ok? Ooh, why do you call the bed that you share with your husband, your bed?
@MoonGypsy (4606)
• United States
23 Mar 12
well, it's not him i hate. it's the thing he does that i hate. he chews with his mouth open. that is one of my pet peeves. he knows it too. what i like is that he tries to be respectful and not do. i try to be patient in return because i know it's a habit that may be em-bread and hard to break. i also know what you mean about missing him when he is gone. he is out with our son and i missed them both.