Couple who fights a lot

As I have seen numbers of couples more often their fight are started from financial issues. As a married person one rule that we agreed with my wife is we don't argue about money, because it's really stressful if you have lot of fights in marriage. And it would also affect each individual character and might result separation if became worst.

Disagreements are a normal aspect of human interaction. I think it is more important how a couple deals with their disagreements. If they are dealt with in a respectful and compromising way then it is likely a healthy relationship. On the other hand, if there are acts of revenge or personal attacks in order to gain the upper hand then I would consider that an unhealthy thing. A couple who truely loves each other should be able to work out their differences in a mature and respectful way.

I don't see fighting as a sign of love but of conflict. I agree it is better to be able to make up than just keep fighting. But the more you fight , the weaker the relationship becomes.But even with that said, there is always hope. Two people who fight a lot can change.

Me and my boyfriend always fight so I literally smiled so wide when I read that the one who fight a lot are really in love with each other, that's so true! Even if we fight a lot, we can always feel each other's love and I think fights o arguments sometimes enrich the relationship and helps it grow because every time we have a major fight, we learn something new and that's the best part. Anyway, every after fight, our talk becomes sweeter and everything feels and looks sweeter than before.

haha! this is great, thanks for saying this one, me and my long time boyfriend fights a lot.. I mean once a month or every week, sometimes i do lots of things not to start a fight or maybe to ignore him when he's mad but I cant help it. At the end of the day we love each other, we miss each other so much that's why we fight. He's working abroad for almost two years now and things are still working well for us. You're right it is normal to fight and we just have to know how to deal with it..

My husband and I argue sometimes and that's normal but we tend to hurt each others feelings a lot and sometimes that takes some time to get over but we always apologize and make up , I guess that's why we have managed to stay together all these years.

There is no perfect relationship, it takes two people to work this together and every relationship has its own trials. If it's just one-sided then this is not called a relationship at all. The couple that fights a lot does not mean they are really in love with each other, it just depends on the root of their fight and the outcome of their fight. You get to see your partner's flaws and mistakes and at the same time, he gets to see yours, then there's this acceptance and understanding for you both to work this out.

Fighting between couples is normal, and usual in people having a committed relationship. Like in the movies, we can see both parties quarrel a lot about family issues, relationship lapses and even financial states of both individuals. That goes to show that love is truly important for them and they do love each other. However, if the fighting is now rampant or meaning it is now an ordinary part of the couple's life then that is really unhealthy for their relationship to prosper. If we dissect some reasons for the occasional outbursts of partners who are in love, we can see that there are times one party is overprotective or at times jealous which in turn limits the freedom of the other. Protecting a love one is true love but overprotecting the person is not, in a relationship both parties have responsibilities to one another, and both have individual needs of freedom to self. Jealousy is also a product of over protection and too much love that can cause a great misunderstanding between couples. Yes, it is at times beneficial for the couple to fight at times, but frequent fights can be dreadful for them. Fighting between lover's can strengthen their love but it can also destroy it. What's important is understanding each others strengths and weaknesses, needs and wants of both individuals. External factors will not affect your relationship if you really put into consideration that the love you have between you and your partner is strong, honest and God-fearing.

I agree with you to a certain degree, I know that in a relationship you can't always agree on everything and every point of view, and yes fights sometime might lead to get closer to each other but, if you fight everyday and for almost everything and disagree most of the time with each other, I would say you are on a complete different page don't stay together you are going to eventually break up.

It depends on the couple and why they are fighting. My parents have always fought alot and for alot of reasons. Growing up it was my mother either being insecure and accusing my dad of "cheating" and saying he was looking at another woman, even if he wasn't. Then my dad's drinking...the fights were almost daily over that. Then now they fight over the silliest things even things one or the other does not do, it gets to be overwhelming to be around them. My dad is practically deaf and it causes alot of differences and stuff, cause my mother gets frustrating with him. Then they fight over other little things. My mom tends to be overly critical of everything and after awhile it will get to you. She hates for anyone else to critique her and will go as far as delve into your own personally life to "get back at you" if you attempt to critique her. It is a very unhealthy way to live like that. So many fights could be avoided only if she could see that she isn't perfect either. But, to her she is and everyone else is imperfect and worthy of her cristism, except my brother, they are life long buddies it seems. My brother even sleeps in the same room with her at night, the living room and watches TV with her every single night, talk about unhealthy. He never goes out to date, etc. I just think myfamily is the most dysfunctional family on the planet sometimes.

some fight in a relationship is normal, but no fight or a lot of fight is NOT normal. what kind of fight also determine the relationship

as you said fighting is a natural thing for couple, well I will share you something...me and my husband really fight almost everyday just for any reason like if he was not able to do things that I am expecting him to do? like if he felt that I am raising my voice to him even if I am not, even the smallest of things like changing the channel of tv but it would only last for like just an hour or less so it is really not a big fight most of the time but if ever we fight really big we do not sleep without fixing our fight...because my aunt said that if you are no longer fighting then you are bored to each other nothing to talk about, simply, nothing interesting, in short you lost interest to each other?.