Do you get jealous of posts with a lot of responces?

I do not get jealous but I do sometimes feel frustrated. I have begun what i thought were very good and deep discussions receiving only one or two responses. Then I will see a discussion that is lightweight and or superficial. And that discussion has gotten 15 plus responses. However most of my discussions are about current events or politics. Those do not seem to be popular topics. I sometimes respond to discussions that have no or very few responses but only if it interests me and or I feel that i can add something.

Well, I do not watch so many answers that have been assigned to an individual topic. I comment when I find an interesting subject where I want to express my opinion inherently to it. I'm not jealous at all, even if no-one responded to my threads. Basically in this site are open every day hundreds of threads of all types. We have to see how many of these are more or less concrete.

Firstly, I must say it's good that you'd concentrate on helping out those discussions with only a few responses to boost them a bit,but I'd also think You may be shooting yourself in the foot by passing over some of the more popular discussions..if You're interested in getting lots of responses yourself,you'll need a good discussion starter for your own item,and being recognised by a lot of people who might then in turn help out on your discussions doesn't hurt,either..so,popular,longer discussions can help get your input seen by those many people reading through the list of responses..Do you add many people as Mylot "Friends" whose discussions you've enjoyed reading or whose responses you enjoy getting? As you know,Those people's discussions get "Flagged" for you to see,so if you're on their list,that gets you out there being seen too..Good luck with more responses!

There are reasons why some get many responses and some don't. The main reason is that they have worked hard to keep a good list of friends and they are constantly in touch with each other. One needs to work here to be able to be noticed. Another reason is that the topic gets the attention and hence many responses. When I see so many responses to topics I do feel that I too should get but no 'green' feeling!. I have also had the joy of getting as many as 77 responses. At the end of the day it is your total activity here that gets rewarded.

I don't get jealous because I am not really trying to get a lot of responses on my discussions. As for replying, I do more on those with few responses because I don't have anything else to say after so many responses before me. I'd get into some long posts if I see a response that I can add some comment to.

Yes, I do too. I have threads that I thought had topic. But sadly, no one want to talk or post about it. And then some reported a thread of mine to be a game or poll type discussion when I was merely asking people what their favorite movie scene or line were. Apparently asking people their favorites are not suitable in MyLot. Oh well, lesson learned.

no ima not jelous at all..in many cases you can notice that some usual discussions as 'which is your favourite fast food?' or other gains much responses so because they are quick and simple so may be some discussions a little bit complicated will gain less responses so in many cases if you open quality discussions you can gain less but it is not bad...

I admire those who find and propose a topic for discussionin a way that it rhen receives many response. I admire those who keep going back and commenting on all of those responses too, not leaving anyone out. I don't start many discussions but often when I do, they will receive many responses. I can assure you that it is then difficult to keep up with them, especially when you have offline things to deal with too.

hi babystaffster no ind eed I do not. I have lots of respnses now onalmost anything I write. I was never here to be in a contest with anyone but myself.I never envy people or feel jealous as those are emotions that make one ill and also stop us from doing our own best work.work on the quality of your own discussions and you will be amazed at how the number of responses you will get . Make friends and try to respond to all their discussions so that you will have people who will always respond to your own discussions. No helping others is never bad but if you are jealous ofme say a as I always get a goodly amount of responses realize I was new once and had my share of few responses so I have worked to get to where I am. do not be afraid to respond to me as I will always respond back to those who respondto me. [

I reply to almost all discussions that interests me regardless of how many responses they have. Users do not earn even though they have like 10 or 50 replies... you earn when you give...so even though that person have one reply, and if you reply to that you earn..but if you ignore it, then you won't be earning lol. But again i do not care how many responses they have.. as long as it is worth replying for.

Well, it looks like this kind of post is one that gets loads of responses! I'm guessing it's one of the bigger ones that you've had. I feel a bit of the same way as you do, when a post already has a bunch of comments, then I don't really need to add anything on... I don't feel like I'm helping so much, because everything has already been said... however, the ones that get the most comments, are popular for a reason. They have the more intriguing ideas behind them, and that's why so many are posting... I'm posting to this one, though, more to help you get the largest amount of responses possible :) Happy mylotting!

I haven't started too many discussion. I only posted since I came back after a year of absence here in mylot. I maybe feel a little upset to see my topic with less responds, but there is nothing we can do about it. Just enjoy mylotting and make friends, that way, more comments on your next topic. :)

No, not really. I honestly don't really care how many response a discussion got. usually I just pick a discussion based on what question is interest me not based on how many response they get.

i am not jelous. It is not bad. Just participate in each user. it should be fair.

no, i don't think it is bad but it really doesn't bother me at all, as long as i have one.

I am certainly not jealous of these posts. I am a bit discouraged when one of my discussions receives too much responses : I am a slow responder and I do my best to comment everybody. I think that a discussion with 3 responders, if there is a lot of interaction, can be as good as a discussion with 50 responders. I have good memories of some discussions involving only a few members. I respond to a discussion when I find it interesting, and I don't care about the number of responses already given. I don't think it is bad, but I don't understand why you are depriving yourself of entering in a discussion that you find "really interesting" just because you think it has got too much responses. Maybe are you too lazy to read all the comments before giving your own response ? Beware : laziness and jealousy are capital sins.

I also in your boat. i too get jealous of seeing post with many responses. I think how this post got this much comments. but, i don;t think it is bad as jealous is inevitable we can't avoid it. it's a matter of time will come at that moment... I think many will jealous about your post :) :)

Nope, I'm not jealous. My English is weak and I'm also slow typing too .... It mean if I got a lot of responses in my discussion, I'm gonna feel guilty to my all responders because I can't comment back as soon as I can.

Hi, that's very kind of you. Yes, I get jealous of people who started discussion with responses that takes up to 4 o 5 pages. Like you, I don't reply to them too. I feel like if I replied to them, they don't notice my response anymore because they don't comment on each response anymore because it's just too many. So I just comment on discussions with just one or two pages like this.

Nope i don't. Because i rarely post my own discussion. LOL. But anyways, i respond to any discussion that interest me whether they have lots of comments or nothing at all. As long as i have my opinion or story to tell. If i can, i would respond to every discussions here, but it will take a lot of time and effort. LOL.