We broke up...and I want to win him back. Any tips?...

It depends on how badly hurt he has been. For the time being, try approaching him just to show him that she still cares for him. If he doesn't show a sign of wanting to go back, get to know about him from his best friends. He usually tells his best friends about what happened.

Tell your friend to call or talk to her ex boyfriend. Tell her to ask forgiveness of what she did by admitting that she made a big mistake, and tell her to tell the man that she just realized how she truly love him. If her ex wanted a space, or wants to be alone for now, just tell your friend to wait coz if this man really loves her, he will forgive her eventually. Your friend should also tell the man that she needs a second chance.

Is there any way she can communicate with her boyfriend? If so, then why she won't make the first move if it is her fault.She must do something before it is too late.

I guess its too hard to go through these phases but the best thing that can be done is try not to get obsessed with it.. Take your friend out, make her have a little fun and enjoy... she probably thinks its end of the world for her.... But tell her he will come back to her if the relationship was worth it..

is the reason behind is so heavy that she really needs to break up with the guy? in my own opinion... if she really loves him., just tell him... and explain as to why she made that move... and if the guys loves he rthe way she does him.. then he will understand... we are not perfect and every move we do its either it could break us or make us... so., in this move it broke her., and if having him back would fix her, then by all means go and tell him she loves him! go! dont just stay there and waste another minute crying... dont cry over spilled milk... :) good luck and i hop eand pray that his boyfriend would have her back! i wish he would... :D let me know what happened... heheh

Why dont she try to talk to him and reconcile.Though its hard,but for the sake of love she can do it.If it does not work at least she tried and she cant regret it in the future.

i think the man need a time for recovering his feeling you know, if the truth man had left you, it takes a time for him for coming back to you why your friend did not realize her boyfriend love to her??

I'm really sorry to hear that your friend is going through such a hard time. I hope that she will be able to get back with him. It would be good for her to write him a letter and express how sorry she is for the mistakes she has made. For her to tell him that she loves him and wants him to give her a second chance. We all make mistakes and if he loves her hopefully he will forgive her. If her mistake wasn't a huge one. Hope things work out for her and that she is now doing better.

If their feelings are mutual, they could be back in each others arms again. If the guy really loves your friend, he will respect her decision about their breakup. Sooner or later they will miss each other and realize that they should be together again. Be there always for your friend, but don't push her too much for the guy, let destiny bring them back together.

I don't know what this mistake is about, if it's really a mistake at all. But fact is in life we all make mistakes, if not in the eyes of ourself in the eyes of someone else. Making mistakes is part of life. Your friend can decide to feel miserable for the rest of her life in her room and feel p;ity for herself or decide to go on with her life and learn from what is happened. And if it comes to her ex-boyfriend: if he loves her they will be together, if she hurt him it will take time. Talking about it won't help at this moment. There will be time for that if they decide to go on together at a certain time. But also if they do so after a mistake this should be in trust and equall. Otherwise she won't have a life at all with a bf blackmailing her, treating her bad, throwing her what happend in her face each time something is going on the doesn't like. Make this clear to her and also that a man will only have respect plus wants a woman who is able to live her life, who is funny and he can't get!

i think, its normal for your friend o be uneasy,, just give her time to think thru things:) sometimes relationships will always have to be in different kinds of trial to know, if both of them are compatible with each other :)

Sometimes ... it's good just to take a little space. I know that sounds like tough love, but it is probably the best medicine. Men and woman are NOT alike. Generally, the woman wants the answer resolved NOW, where the man doesn't want to deal with things as quickly. Be a friend to your friend by listening to her and not giving any advice but to say "maybe you just need some space". In 2 weeks, the topic won't be as HOT and your friend may have a better chance to makeup.