My heart's not in it today

These past few days I've been here with so much pain and alone. I think it is also part of my age not like before that I see so much excitement and positive. Recently I felt that I'm only one and no one to talked too. That's why I came to mylot as my comfort zone. I love my mylotters friends who always support each and everybody who are down and lonely. As everybody here has the power to give us strength I know you can do it also. I just came to realize many people out there suffered so much than ours so If they can fight we can also. Have a nice day and see you mylotting always.

I go through this myself at times and it's hard for me to focus on any particular discussion. It's good for you to share things here on My Lot although don't share too much as it's good to keep some things private. I think a lot of people treat My Lot as a journal and there is nothing wrong with this. It's good to release those thoughts and it definitely makes things a little easier. I have gone through bouts of depression myself and I'm just grateful that I have been able to focus on things and move on with my life although I still have difficulty in some areas, notably crowds and lots of people. Good luck with your own situation. Andrew

i find that some days that not too many discussions spark my interest in mylot either but i hope you feel better!

Lots of us have bad days here. No one will judge you. WE are only gald that you feel safe enough to tells us. Blessings

Ecaron we all get that way sometimes if you need to talk message me if not no problem we will talk soon take care my friend. Fergus

I’m sorry you are going through so much. Mylot is such a place where we can let it all out and those who understand can chime in and relate, and lift you up. Mylot friends here are the greatest. I am glad that I have them in my life. I’m sorry that your husband is not treating you well. I remember other discussions and I said my piece in them, but I know it’s difficult to just change things all by yourself. I’ve been married before also and was very disrespected by my husband, but it was behind my back. I never knew until I found him cheating on me, and that he admitted he had been cheating for two years prior to our divorce. Divorce was the best thing though. I decided it was better to be alone than to be disrespected. I think we lose ourselves sometimes in marriages, and we feel we are nothing without them, but it’s not true. I hope you can either put things right, or learn how to cope one way or another. Mylot is here for you.. and so am I.

I often complain that made ??me depressed at MyLot. I was relieved, and feel supported, from the responses I get. I felt a little comforted. If you want to create a discussion about the problems you face, is permitted. At least, you could feel more relieved and comforted. and maybe, you'll get a solution from one of the responses, you earn.

Hi ecaron… Going through mylot discussions and responses is already an action against depression, even if nothing grabs your fancy. I do that also when I am down and I just breeze through. Whiles away the time and also therapeutic. And you are right, there are bright days ahead to look forward to. Cheer up.

Everybody has their own ups and downs. I myself feel sad sometimes. Its normal. Just don't let this feeling get in your outlook in life. Stay positive always!

Take some distance, have a look at your life as if you are watching a tv show (and you know what to do) or ignore it all (which can be healing as well). If it comes to the discussions etc. many times I don't find them interesting either, I could for sure not spend here some hours. Think that is normal. Make your own day and pamper yourself!

Hi ecaron, sometimes you will feel that the world is against you, I believe it is normal. It's good that you express it here in myLot. Just believe in yourself in everything and you will become better, I assure. Have a nice day! : )

Hi, I am feeling the same. For me it's the same old thing with living where I am. The same arguing and such and hearing so many complaints and disagreements from relatives, etc. The only upside to today is that it is still quite warm and will be til tomorrow, a warm Spring day in March. I have had a headache all day and feeling like something the cat dragged in, though. There is some pain in my legs and knees that gets me down too lately. I feel like I have to do 'everything' for my folks at times and they don't understand how I feel about some things, etc. Life is just a major downer at times. I hope we both cheer up soon.

hi ecaron,it is always good to express your thoughts and feelings through a big outlet like mylot.It is believed that if we have a problem and you keep it in mind without telling it to others, it will create unwanted tensions in our mind which intern leads to many other problems in life.These problems can be easily solved once you tell the matter to your friends,they can help u in giving suggestion and tips to solve your problems,thus make your mind relaxed.This is exactly what you have done here..... my prayers are always with uuuuu,,,...........

hey go out enjoy the outside environment. talk to your friends, eat a cake, ride a bike, smell the flowers, or anything. there are many things in this world that could cheer you up. dont fret my friend that is not a difficult predicament you are experiencing.. ^^,)