Best responses makes me feel good
By BYOLA2871
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
South Africa
March 23, 2012 12:49pm CST
Anytime i respond to a post i have 2 things at the back of my mind 1.to help the poster as best as i can 2.to put myself in the position of the person posting.Anytime i get a best response i feel so good cos i feel i a appreciated and the poster has been helped.How do you feel when you get best response
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@jeanneyvonne (5501)
• Philippines
24 Mar 12
I'm joining the club. of course, it feels good that somebody here deemed and selected your post as the best. It's some sort of a gesture of appreciation that you and one who posted agree on the same stand or topic. Best responses makes you feel that what you sid have merit and teh poster actually relate on what you responded.
On my blue, lazy and bad days, I usually go to my best responses section and read them. It gives me a good lift because I feel that somebody appreciates what I shared by responding . Sometimes, it gives the drive to appreciate and go on mylotting. For me, it is some sort of validation to continue participating and responding.
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
24 Mar 12
Me too somehow get excited and feel proud having my best responses. But sometimes I don't mind too, for me participating here is what I'm enjoyed too. I just give my honest response for the best that I can even without best response from the posters.
@tonyllenium (6252)
• Italy
30 Mar 12
yes is positive when you get a new best response on mylot so naturally i am glad too that i wrote an helpful post in that discussion even if sometimes i noticed that many others wrote a good response too as mine checked as best!!
@wmraul (2552)
• Bucharest, Romania
23 Mar 12
I also feel proud of myself when I get a BR, and I like to think that the one who gave it to me was pleased of what I have said.
I also like the challenge of giving the BR to others on my discussions ... And sometime is so hard to make a decision ...
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@inertia4 (27960)
• United States
24 Mar 12
It does feel good to get a best response. I have gotten many and I truly do appreciate every single one of them. I also like giving a best response, but it is sometimes a hard task because there are sometimes many awesome responses. So, even though I give a best response, I do feel bad for the ones that did not get it.
@megamatt (14292)
• United States
26 Mar 12
Well it certainly is something to get the best response. Especially in a topic that is really going to have a great deal of responses and you get chosen out of fifteen, twenty, thirty other responses. Of course, it does tend to lose a little bit of something when you do get the sense that the topic starter has chosen the first decent looking post and not really put much thought into it. Which I do get the sense of, but that is just how people do things.
Still it is kind of a good feeling when this does occur. It just makes me feel happy, a little joyous to get such a pat on the back. Granted it would not be the end of the world if I did not get the best response. But it is rather nice to get the best response in all. It just really does make a lot of the efforts on this website not really go misplaced. So I feel happy to an extent, a bit more so if I do have some competition and my post won out.