I secretly fell in love female teacher

What do you mean by painful experience? Did you tell her about your crush and she broke your heart? Or was it painful having graduated and leaving the school? When I was in high school I too had a crush on a new training teacher who had been posted to our school. I hated sitting at the front but during her lessons I would trade places with a friend just to sit in the front an be close to her. I remember when her training was over it was as if I had been dumped. But I was young and foolish then. I got over her in less than a week.

Hi zhaozy, What you have just described is not love but infatuation. It is very common and normal for a young boy of that age to feel deeply attracted to an older woman, especially if she's attractive, gentle and extremely feminine. It's due to hormones. This sort of feeling is one sided and will pass as one gets older and start to have a mutual love relationship. Have a nice day.

I never fell in love with any of my teachers, but I can imagine that it was painful. But if it was not one sided, it would have been more painful because you probably would have got into trouble, at least while you were still at school.

I also had the same type of feeling when i was in my college and in there we had a teacher who was very beautiful and i had a crush on her and used to go to her to clear the doubts.I think it was a crush not love, she was 2 years older to me and was not married so once i thought of telling her that I liked her but never had the courage to tell anything.And hence I moved on from then and now am leaving a good life and she got married to another man.It was painful for sometimes but its ok,it is part and parcel of life, we have to move on.