Which Thing/Quality attracted him ????

I was once told that you can not explain why you love someone and what made you really go for them. It just is that is what real love is. You just love them because you love them nothing more and nothing less. My husband wonders all of the time what makes me love him and I tell him I really don't know I just do. I know what qualities I like in him but that didn't make me love him. It did help us become good friends before we dated each other. I like his humor even though some times its not that funny. He isn't the best looking guy in the world but his heart speaks for the rest of him. His heart always made me want to know more about him and wanted me to be part of his life. I guess in the end his heart won me over and mine did the same for him.

Everyone has their own view on all aspects. Whatever things I like may not like by you. Similary, my interest varie from your interst. We know that we meet several good looking and average people around on a daily basis and we won't feel like to love all of them. Out of a 100 people we may be selective for 3-4 of a maximum of 10-15. Means, all the 85 are out of your list for selection. Also, if someone esle is selecting a partner from the 85 people, there may be liking of 5-10 among them, but not all. So, if you are asked to select someone from a crowed, you will find someone suitable and there may be some kind of attraction in that person exclusively for you. This is here also, on familiar with him/her, you may be attracted some features of the other peson and that may be the reason for him to love you. May be your complext is black, he may be finding some of your other features as good. Also, there are 100s of black complexened girls are loved and get married. So, no need to think much on this if someone likes you. For him, colour of your skin is not a matter, I think he already smelled your colour of yoru mind!! Nice day.

What attracted me to my current boyfriend was his sense of humor. He was the type of person who could make me laugh no matter what it was. He was easy to talk to and I really enjoyed talking to him. I found his voice charming and wanted to hear more of it. He would tell stories in a way that just made me smile and laugh. He is an amazing person and I love him with all my heart.

Communication is the key. Ask him. Why do you love me? Does he get flustered and can't answer? That would tell me that he is not being truthful. He loves only that you are a pretty woman. Not any deep qualifier. Just that. Communication opens the door. So you will know if he really loves YOU or just LOVING.

I think that there are different qualities that will draw us to the people that we end up loving in our lives. For example, the reason that I was son drawn to my husband from the first time that we ever talked was because of the fact that he was so honest with me from the start. My previous boyfriend was someone that drew me in because of the fact that his experiences in the world and mine were very different so we were able to teach each other about the world. I've found that for me, the reason for the attraction has never had anything to do with physical appearance.

First of Congratulations!!! There could be a number of qualities that attracted him to you, and make him love you. It could be your personality, your looks, the way you make him feel. Personally based on my experience, my hubby is not the best looking apple in the tree, but I loved the way he made me laugh, how he made me feel, he made me feel like I was the only one in his world, he was understanding and always there for me no matter. Most importantly he was and still is my best friend and most importantly the love of my life.

Many things attract romantic interest. It may start with how you look, but more likely it is how you are all the way around. If you smile, speak kindly, look people in the eye, it makes you attractive. Other than outer attraction, a great personality helps people like you.

Hi Dassodils: I think you are the only one who has this answer. However, people generally tend to fall in love of someone because of his/her behaviour, how you feel when you are with your boyfriend and also physical attraction is one factor. Think about how you feel when you are with him. Maybe protected, or you feel that he listens to you in a way no other person does? ALVARO

Dear I don't think we love people for their qualities, it's like bussiness if that was true you know: I love him because he's this and that. I met or dated really, great great guys but in the end I didn't loved, and now the right guy even have this or that I thought I would never get through or accept and I do. He loves you for what you are, if he can't name it it's even better. I think it's love dear!

Guys have different tastes when it comes to choosing who to date or who to love. For some guys, they might find a girl unattractive but for some they might find her pretty. Some guys are not shallow and sees a girl for her personality and the kind of girl she is. There are a lots of guys who care less for looks, rather they go for personality or somebody they can freely talk or communicate too. But personally, I believe everyone is beautiful. It's just that the guy find you the most beautiful person in the world, that is, both in beauty and personality. (,")

Have you tried to ask yourself this question: what is in your boyfriend that attracted you to him? Do you know? If you have the answer then you do know. Actually it is not easy to describe. Normally when you are attracted to someone it is because you feel that being near or with that person makes you happy. It may be his look. It may be his speech. It may be his personality. At first it may be one or more of those that makes you notice him. But to really fall in love with someone, it has to be the combination of all. You have to be able to accept every part of him to love him. And the acceptance of someone doesn't come overnight. You have to be friends with him for sometime to know him better. And if all conditions suit, you will fall in love unconscionably and you just feel the happiest when you are with him. And that, I think, is how a love story starts.

Hi Dassodils... First of all are you the one on picture? If yes, I think that there is no reason for you not to be confident about yourself... physically, you seem to have a pretty face... Second "the beauty is in the eye of the beholder", maybe other people don't see you that attractive but it seems that your lover see that and he is very attracted in you... Third, maybe your lover found something in you what that person is looking for to a partner. Honestly, don't be confused... we all experienced that same feeling when our partner says something good about us specially if you do not have experienced on that... With regards to quality that is for you to answer since the only person knows you well is you yourself alone... Try to assest yourself and give yourself a chance to experience "Love" but don't get too high... since it's always have a downside... and always save something for yourself if in case... Take care always, Good Luck and God Bless... :D

I'm not experienced with these things but i think that he loves you because of your personality and actions that you do.(this cause is not often the reason why he loves you)

I do not understand what you mean but fair love. Or do you mean that he loves you more than you love him? In relationships it is always this way. You find that one person loves the other more. Sadly there is no explanation for this. However repost again and tell us what you mean because I feel I may have misunderstood you.

It is natural to be confused, we all are, at one point or another, in a relationship, never mind the experience. I think that the main question here is if he really loves you, if you believe so, then, there is no real interest in knowing which especific feature of yours, attracted him the most, probably, it is not one, but a mixture of things, and not only physical. If you allow me, to give you an advise, do not think too much, if their feelings and values are strong, enjoy this feeling you are having now, this is something beautiful, specially at your age. Always be sure of your own feelings, and, be sure that your values are strong as well, keep a healthy comunication with your parents, and be as happy as possible. Blessings.

hello there, Dassodils. By your lover I understand this guy is your boyfriend, correct? so girl, if a guy tell you he loves you and he has eyes only for you then I can assuer you he's a keeper and you shouldnt question his feelings so much. Every human feels differently, some like outer beauty, some inner, some a combination of both, but its true even if people deny it, one's attraction always comes first from physical apperance, so simply he loves you for that first and then if he knows you deeply he loves you for your personality and character and heart as well and thats pretty much it. You be happy you are loved :)

Well I am not familiar with my own matters. According to the new attitude of the new generation most of the people look for the girls who is looking good according to his dream. Might this is the reason which made him to love you.

You know girl, I think you have this special something that your bf loves you about. Like for example your smile, your looks, attitude.. BUT of course maybe he loves everything about you. JUST don't question it... =) BE thankful that someone treat you special and LOVES you so much. It is very difficult to determine why did he love you. =)