Impossible Relationships

I think these kind of situations you can have in each kind of relationship. No matter if ti's your life partner or family or friends or neighbours. It might be more difficult if it happens with your partner (a stranger who did not grew up with you, different dna). Many times these discussions start because the woman wants a life too. Mostly she gives up. So it's better to think first before you give up on your dreams and goals in name of (so called) love. BTW not every relationship needs to be saved. Life is a journey, should be lived, you should gather life experiences and grow in the same direction if you want to stay together. If not, you should also no when to leave/quit and take your chances but also give your partner a fair chance. If not with you with someone else.

Yeah each relationship faces it's ups and downs. And the individuals in the relationship handle situations differently. I use to feel that it would be easier to stay in a relationship and works things out. Now I usually don't voice my opinions if someone decides to leave. We all have to deal with the consequences of our actions. Some times there may be more than we realize. Even when leaving a relationship and you are innocent of doing anything wrong. I know staying in a relationship when your not happy can be difficult. That's why I think it's important for those who are considering a serious relationship to think deeply about what they want and what their partner wants.

I think that a relationship where a couple constantly, and I mean "constantly" argues is a relationship that is doomed to failure because if you two can't go a few hours or a day without arguing, then there is something terribly wrong with that relationship. Another type of relationship that I would deemed an impossible relationship would have to be the "long distance relationship". This is a relationship that is more often than not doomed to failure because it is very hard to have a relationship where you don't get physical with your partner. The whole point of most relationships in this world is to get physical with the one that you love, and this goes back to nature basic human needs. People need that contact and the interaction with each other. Abuse is another thing, but yes, if there is any physical, verbal, emotional or just any kind of abuse in general, it is a relationship doomed to failure because one person has more control than the other, and the one without the control will eventually want control. Also, if he or she abuses you, then what makes you think that that person will not abuse anyone else? Think about it? They hurt you and they often don't just hurt one person, they hurt everyone because that's all they know. My example of this is my friend's parents: His father used to physically hit his mother, and then he began to physically hit his son and his daughter. Once he hit is daughter, the mother knew that it was time to leave, but she should have known better and she should have left the minute that he hit her. It should have never gotten to the point where he hit her daughter for her to say, "Now it's time to go". No, she should have left long before that. Never stay in a relationship where someone is being abusive because they won't just abuse you, they will abuse others because that is just how they are.

I find it hard to believe that it's real love if they can't even try to understand each other. This is the very annoying reason why people keep saying that there's no such thing is forever. It's about how people handle their relationships.

Why there are relationship/s that cannot be saved? I believed there are relationship/s that are not worth saving for.Like abusive relationship, may it physical or emotional , the torture is same and I don't think it is healthy to stay in such a relationship. Arguments are normal in a relationship, but too much is enough reason to leave or walk away.Why stay in a relationship when there is no more love and respect. Self-respect is the last thing that a person must lose in a relationship.

I think this is one way of removing inhibitions in the couples relationship.. it is also a way of releasing your stressed with your partner.. :)