What if all of a sudden, your so called "EX" lover comes back?...

I would definitely give my ex another chance if I was not seeing anyone else at the moment. And also this is greatly affected by how and why we broke up. In your case you shouldn’t give them another chance because it will jeopardize the current relationsh

If we broke up in good way and if i m not in relationship I will not mind to see him again as a friend and just have some nice conversation with him. I will say NO if: 1. we broke up in bad way 2. I m in relationship with someone else

if this situation happens to me,I will definitly refuse him.In my opinion,we broke up years ago which proved that we are not suitable for each other,so why waste time on something impossible.I can find someone who is really fit me,or I will stay alone.

I know one of these days, my ex will come back and he will face his responsibility into his son. If he suddenly appears, without a doubt, I will accept him not for my sake but for our son's sake. I need him because my son wants to see his father. A child's personality is not complete without a father. I don't need my ex, My son needs him.

Oh, i will be seeing my ex this weekend. Not that I want to see him. We are high school classmates, so on reunions i still see him. If that happens and if he wants to be in a relationship with me... well that actually happened before but i turned him down.. I never want anything to do with him ever again. I'm better off without him. I don't need him and i don't have feelings for him anymore. He has made a fool out of me for making me love him and he doesn't even deserve it. I kinda wished he was next to miserable, yeah, that's evil but that is the awful truth,

I'm not gonna accept her any more

I am in the perfect situation as u mentioned. She left me for the reason well known to her, my heart wants her back, but my mind would say move on as once a crook always a crook. Its really very hard for me to decide. I think i will go with my life's priorities.

My ex did get a hold of me about a year and a half after we broke up (I found out that he had been cheating). by that time I had been with my now husband for about a year. I was happy. We did clear the air a bit, which is a good thing because he is still a part of my cousin's life so I have seen him over the years. Apparently he did not handle my getting married really well...I figured that turn about was fair play because I did not handle his cheating on me very well either.

Ex = exit and it will always stay that way. My ex did try to come back and he still is (by now it is 6 years or more later) trying but I am absolutely not interested in him. I tried for years, he never showed interest, now he is a loser suddenly I am the best part in his life? There is a very good reason why he is the ex. I am absolutely not interested in him or attracted by him, it's even very hard for me to understand now I once did. My ex had plenty of second and third chances. Enough is enough. I don't like losers, lazy people and people who drink plus people who suddenly after everybody dumped them find me the love of their life.

The exact thing happened with me today. She called me and talked to me, although she didnot say anything like u just have said. She said that she has moved on and suggested me to not to wait for her. But if she would have said that she wants to resume our love tape,i would definitely have denied her.

Well there's a reason why they're an "EX", and should remain that way. Approximately two weeks ago, an Ex who I hadn't spoken to in about a year calls me, talking all nice and what not. Now the reason we parted ways is because he was very very verbally abusive to me during the latter course of our relationship, I mean the man would cuss me out,told me some pretty hurtful things and it was grating on my nerves so I left. Calls me two weeks ago sounding all angelic and what not, asks me if I'm in a relationship, was shocked when I told him yes and them tried to "throw salt in my game", by "insulting" my boyfriend. In the meantime, he apologises for his past behavior, I mean you would swear the man had changed. Last week he calls again, and guess what?? the old him started rearing it's ugly head again. I just laughed within myself, all the while thinking "I knew this was too good too be true". Now I had NO intention of leaving my man for him, not at all, but I'm trying to show you when those "Ex-es" start coming back, it's best to leave them there. As one of the previous posters said earlier EX=exit, and it should indeed remain that way.

It happened to me once before and I accepted him back because we only broke up because we lost communication and I was in another country that time. It is depend on how you two broke up.

Hi,Kc!If my ex were to come to me and im in a relationship with my boyfriend,iwould say that it was great being with you but i have someone now and nothing will ever happen between us.