How do I prepare for my labor?

You should think positive and don't get nervous. Just try to relax your mind and stop thinking about negative stuff. I am sure you can make it. Congrats for your soon to be born baby! :-)

I have the same sentiments here, right now, emochique. This is my 2nd baby, and I'm due by end of May, but I can actually deliver anytime now. I'm trying to catch any signs of labor, and I feel more worried when my husband is out for work. All the "what-ifs" are disturbing my mind. I just hope I get to the hospital on time. "All my bags are packed, and ready to go..."

Don't worry so much just think everything will be fine. Pray as God is good that He will protect both of you or listen to some soft music might help you relaxing and give you comfort. bottom line is don't stress out or worry too much that's not good for you and the baby. good luck!

To be honest, I don't know if anyone can fully prepare themselves for their first labor. I read all the books, went to the classes, and watched Discovery Health shows that dealt with labor everyday. I had my bags packed and ready to go. Then I just waited thinking I was prepared enought to be a pro. When those first pains hit, I realized that nothing could prepare me to feel that. As I was giving birth I realized that those books, classes, and movies truly did not make me a pro. The best thing you can do is relax. Think about all of the wonderful things you are going to do with your baby. Don't be scared, it is natural. Your body will no what to do even if you have no clue.