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hello couz, you never mentioned this one on me but you did in mylot! haha pretty cool you got time to spare in here, happy to now that. We'll human as we are we do have lots of differences, I bet that's normal. Stay in love as you are.. by the way, you already have paypal account?Mylot will pay you through paypal..

Why am I thinking of a certain anime where the couple--well, they're not yet a couple at the first part of the story--keeps on fighting each other? I guess that process where you argue is somewhat normal since you get to know your partner...yeah, the anime shows that they argue everyday so in every episode you'll expect some shouting being thrown around... Well, anyways, what I am trying to say is, I think your relationship is quite good. As long as there's no alpha between the two of you and you both are on equal grounds, I'd say you have a very comfortable--well sort of--relationship.

Are you sleeping with him?

Mm..I dont have words to say but you love him very much actually. you said that you have quarrel with him everyday but you keep yhis relation for two years. it wont be happenned if you dont love him. though you tried to break up with him for four times but when he asks you to come back to him, you accept him again. so nothing I can say beside though he's weird but you love him so much. maybe not only he who is weird, it's supposed that maybe you are a weird person too. lol. just kidding my friend. good luck for you and give my regard to your boyfriend..:)

that's kinda similar as my relationship, only for us its been like weekly intervals..I think at the beginning its usual, and if I remember right, you're in a ldr, right? It has come to the part where I wanted to call it quits too cause of different opinions and stuff, but in the end I love him and i'm just better with him than without him, so I tell yo if its real love no differences will tear you apart. hang in there! :)

Hmmm...your relationship sounds like unbreakable...lol Good luck:P

Ask yourself why? sometimes we get comfortable with the person that we are already afraid to let go..but sometimes when you feel like you are not growing with maybe you really should let go, it will hurt but it will also heal.

It's good to know that you still love him despite all the problems your relationship is facing. The struggles can be overcame and with the way both of you handle it, maybe your getting stronger, problem strengthens relationships.

Well, it's up to you to decide what is better between the two of you. Relationship really hard to handle but if both of you love each other there is no hard into that way

indeed, a love-hate relationship. you will definitely not get bored with each other. you can always add some spice. :)

So, internally, you are still in love with him, otherwise, you won't even care about this relationship, and you probably already gone out of it. Anyway, try not to think about your differences, try to think about the happiest time together between 2 of you. I am sure you have some great time with him, otherwise, you won't stay that long with him right?

Ho dianon! Don't get mad at me but I found you two are weird~(^^) Just joking! You are not that strong enough to decide whether to break up or not. If you really want it to end you should say it. Otherwise it will be like that on and off. But sine you said that you love the way he is I think there is no problem between you two.If you like him that much it should be any problem even if his weird thinking annoys you that much.(^^)

as i was reading and came to the part where you end up hurting each i am like oh wait, is it really hurting? like how do you hurt each other? i hope there is no hitting, pushing or something like that. but anyway, fights are just normal in a relationship. my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 8 years now, and so far we never had a serious fight. i hope we never have one but after we fight we try to talk abut what happened and try to understand it so we can avoid it from happening again and then learn from it. but yeah, it is just so unhealthy if a couple keeps on arguing, fighting, cursing at each other and all that. if you love each other then you just try to work it out. i hope you get through all these and be happy

I know what you mean, my husband drives me crazy sometimes and sometimes I get really frustrated with the way he acts but I put up with it because we have been together a long time and I can't see myself with anyone else. He says there is and never will be anyone else for him either. So, we're stuck with each other , I guess.

Hi, are you going out with him without an objective? I mean will you end up getting married or not? If not, it is okay if you carry on like that. But if you plan to get married.....it is a sign that you two are not a good match. If you carry on till you two get married, the quarrel will perhaps be even more frequent.

He can't really 'stop' you from breaking up with him. You should just do it. If it's over for you, it's over for him, that's it. Maybe you should tell him you need a break - a week or two to mull things over. It sounds like you're a little wishy-washy. I think a separation period might be for the best. Just like a good friend...Spending too much time with him might be the reason you're taking each other for granted and fighting a lot. Some time apart might be what will 'make it' or 'break it'. Best of luck to you!

Hi Dianon_ice and welcome to my lot. If you don't get along it don't sound like a good relationship. I tried this with a few of my ex husbands and it never would work out they wanted to argue and I am a peace loving woman. I was married to a man for over 12 years and every six months we would have a knock down fight I new it would never last. But stayed I think I figured he would change but he didn't. Then God one day sent me the man I am married too now and he treats me like a queen. So there is a good guy out there for you keep looking God don't want us to be with someone that wants to fight and argue everyday. Don't take any bull stuff you are better then that God made you just the way HE wanted you and God has someone special for you keep looking!

Hello :). Well, everyone fights in a relationship. It's in fact an important part of it, because it marks the limits of what the other does or doesn't want and knowing those limits is an important part of loving someone. However, if by hurting each other you mean serious emotional damage, as in one is left in despair, then it's not healthy and you should break up. It also depends on what you argue about. If you both argue for everything, to the point where you end up asking why you fought about that, then its probably that you hate each other, or it could be that you love fighting with each other for some reason :p. But seeing as you attempted to end the relationship four times, maybe in your mind you believe that's necessary, so maybe the fifth time you should do it for real.

That is the reason why love moves in so many ways, mysterious ways that some people cannot understand. Why people stays in an abusive relationship, why people never learned after breaking their hearts, why people keep on loving the person who hurt them continuously. There are so many why's, but no one knows the definite answer- for heart keeps beating in the name of love.

I'm sorry to hear that your relationship is having a hard time. I know how hard it can be to have a relationship that is in trouble. That would be tough when you argue all the time. I hope that you will either be able to work on the relationship or end it. I hope things will work out for the both of you no matter what you decide.