Do you like being kissed by your partner in public or just in private?
@kccrystalsachi (117)
Philippines
March 28, 2012 1:47pm CST
We sometimes like the thought of being kissed in public feeling that our partners are proud of us, whenever they do it but can't let it happen because on our end, we feel shy about it. That is for others but not for me.
I really am not sure if there are a lot of you, mylotters here who'd prefer being kissed in public or you just like this done when you're just alone with your partners, problem at home, inside your room or just when it's only the 2 of you together.
What's your say on this? Are you the type of person who'd like being kissed in public or in private?
Share your thoughts here...Happy mylotting!
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18 responses
@diala84 (138)
• United States
29 Mar 12
I like kissing in private better. I will kiss some in public but usually just a quick peck. I think part of the reason I don't kiss more in public is that I remember what it was like to be single and feel really lonely. That was about the last thing I wanted to see was a couple heavily making out in public. Sometimes just seeing something like that might ruin my whole day or cause me to have a mental breakdown later in the day about love and romance. Thankfully I did find a wonderful man to be my husband. I just don't want to take him for granted or be the reason others are upset about the idea of love.
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@cheerfulnuts (604)
• Philippines
10 Jul 12
I like your answer, diala84. You are very thoughtful. I'm glad you've found a wonderful husband.:)
@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
hi there,
my boyfriend kisses me all the time be it in private or public and i like it because i feel so loved and that he is proud of me.
before i was also shy but because being in this country, people would be staring at us and raise and eyebrow LOL but i don't care anymore. my boyfriend is American and so he is liberated and open minded and doesn't care about what other people think about us.
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@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
i am from Philippines.
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@asliah (11137)
• Philippines
13 Dec 12
hi,
for me i like them both,actually i always kiss my parents in there chicks whether in public or private places because for me it is showing of love for them,and kissing in partner shows love also,so for me it will depend on how they will kiss each other or how the people give meaning of it.
@keihimekawa (2009)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
If it's just a simple kiss, then it's totally fine with me. I'd totally appreciate it if my partner would show me his affection even in public.
@sherrybelle (707)
• United States
28 Mar 12
I enjoy being kissed anywhere and everywhere. I also admire people who can relax enough to show some affection whenever they feel inspired to do so.
I know people who have issues with PDA (public displays of affection) and I wish they could allow their selves to be free.
@male20022001 (49)
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29 Mar 12
i love you. and like you comments which you say here, will you like kiss with me?
@Faith1118 (112)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
That is actually one agreement we had before with my husband, even when we were just boyfriends and girlfriends we already agreed that we do kiss in private not because we are not proud to be on each others arms but because we grew in the province and that we are brought up in a some what conservative way, so kissing in public would mean to us as Public Display of Affection. But it is really fine with us if people around us do kiss in public it is just not applicable to us. I think many are actually doing it in public specially in church instead of saying peace be with you. So it is their thing not ours. this is just for us.
@nielsccian (7)
• Philippines
29 Mar 12
Right, kissing for me is something that should be done in private. No offense to others, kissing in public means to me as "OA" "Show off" thing. Why? do we really need to let others see that we love each other by doing PDA? I think not. What if you are doing it then some "Tambay" people are around? do you think it is nice in their minds? I think not. All those PDA things are just "Insurance" for uncomfortable lovers.
@narnia007 (1050)
• India
22 May 12
Many of us have an idea that if we hold our partner strongly in front of others or if we propose to them in front of all people,our partner comes to the idea that we are not afraid of anyone and all we care about is our partner and thats why we do it without any fear in front of the whole world.But when it comes to kiss,I would feel shy as it is something intimate than holding hands and proposing.And besides in my culture and city,I do not want the whole crowd to stare at us having a loving intimate kiss.
@tessa9 (1085)
• Philippines
3 Apr 12
I mean it really depends on the situation. I don't mind my boyfriend giving me a peck on the forehead, cheeks or even lips. He knows the limits though. There are certain things that he knows that I won't allow him to do in public. I guess it depends on the people on the relationship and how they feel about public display of affection. I see nothing wrong with it actually as long as everything is PG 13.
@Tamosree1993 (1525)
• India
30 Mar 12
Hello friend,
I love to kissed with my boyfriend just in private place.
Have a nice day.
@mayflowerhorn76 (122)
• Makati, Philippines
29 Mar 12
I love to kiss and to be kissed but in private.
@Andri_tjiu (80)
• Indonesia
29 Mar 12
i will choose kissed in private, because it's looks like taboo in my country. ^^
@jureathome (5361)
• Philippines
29 Apr 12
In our country, its a taboo to see couples kissing (lip lock) in public. I'm fine with a smack or a kiss on the cheeks - that's sweet and decent, but I always feel uncomfortable when I feel like going beyond that line. Perhaps, the only public place I could allow myself to kiss my partner is in a moviehouse or a bar, where its darker.
@ladyhemingway (965)
• Philippines
14 May 12
I don't mind being kissed in public by my partner, just as long as it is the kind of kiss that isn't very attention catching. I am very showy when it comes to my affection to my boyfriend so I would also love it if he wouldn't mind being kissed by me in public. Sometimes, I even find it sweet.
@allenwrites (263)
• Philippines
26 Oct 12
Well to be honest, I haven't kissed a girl. But I am studying in Manila right now. And I saw many people kissing in public. At first, I was shocked to see couples kissing in public. Because I use to grow up in a conservative environment. And kissing in public was not the usual scenes. But now that I've been in Manila for more than three years now, it's normal for me to see couples kissing in public.
@maezee (41988)
• United States
28 Mar 12
PDA (I mean, Public Displays of Affection) kind of gross me out. Well, not to a certain extent, it's fine, but when I have to see couples making out and stuff in public, I am always thinking to myself: get a room!. But I am a pretty private person as far as all that stuff goes, so that's probably just me.... Happy MyLotting!
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
28 Mar 12
It's a given that everyone likes to be kissed in private. Haha! But I like to be kissed in public too. Not french kissing, mind you. Just those short and sweet kisses on the cheek or lips or even forehead.
Sometimes I feel like I just want to reach out and kiss my boyfriend for no other reason but to make him feel loved at that very second. And I would want to be the recipient of that type of kiss too. It means a lot when it's in public because it shows that he is not afraid to show the world how he feels about me. It's the same with holding hands and hugging. Now I want a kiss...or a hug. ![](/Content/images/emotes/blush.gif)
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@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
28 Mar 12
I find it normal my husband shows his love and affection for me. No matter if there are people around, if we are inside or outside. I think it's abnormal only to show it in the bedroom and ignore your partner for the rest of the time. If my husband would not kiss me outside/in public, on the street or with other people around I would think there is something wrong with him or he feels ashamed. i would not stay with a man like that.
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