No text/ call from your partner for a day, what will you feel?

I really feel bad whenever my boyfriend would not text me. Now, I don't know what he is actually doing. I think he is gone to sleep. I hope he is not dong bad things or hiding something from me. Like you, I feel sad also. It is not easy when our loved ones will not message us. But as much as possible, I don't want to think bad.

I can't stand not receiving messages from my bf even if we live together =) That is a way,I feel he always care. Asking me what am I doing and have I eaten or discuss any topic under the sun.

My husband goes to see his family every summer. I stopped going because I don't really enjoy myself down there. I'm not all that comfortable, etc. So my husband goes alone. The first couple of times he went it was really hard not hearing from him every day. I was constantly wondering what he was doing that he couldn't call me. Now after 5 or 6 years of this I am getting used to it. I just don't like the feeling that he may not be thinking of his wife and kids that he left back home. You know, out of sight out of mind. You are lucky to have such a loyal and caring boyfriend.

Well, you know I experience that particular events. My partner suddenly can't afford to text me or called me when she is going to other country for work, until I find out the reason why she is not regularly calling or texted me. There is a third party and I really sadden about it. I hope that might not be happen with you, my friend?

It kinda makes me worried, sometimes I think he might be forgetting me, but then I think how stupid am I, he's working, he has to live a life too. But in general I'll be sad and think about him often and then in the end I just can't resist to text him, so then is all okay again. And my case is kinda same, we're miles apart too, its a ldr.

Hello friend, It is not possible of my boyfriend. He is with me any time. Have a nice day.

This is very common between my husband and I. We seldom call or send SMS to each other unless there is something urgent. As I don't want to bother him when he is working and so does he. Occasionally we will have a text chat for a while in the chatting software. Since we have married for 8 years. So we don't really pay attention to have the chat in the call to say love words. We become to be practical much more:) I love China

Hi reco, i feel you. It is hard to be in a long distance relationship. it requires a lot of time, effort, patience and trust.. if there is no text or call from a partner for a day then definitely, i would feel very upset. however, it is best to check on your partner first if he/she's doing okay or not.. send him/her a message or call him/her up through skype or mobile. if there is no response then i would be very worried..

I can't say anything as I never had such experience before.A long distance relationship. I hope all the best. It showed that you miss him so much huh? I do hope it will not distract your focus when you at work as it is not good reco...(^^)

Well, I'm one paranoid SOB, so probably I'd be pretty much deranged. In your case, if you really trust your guy that much, well I guess you wouldn't feel like I do most of the time. My girl got a guy room mate right now, and basically sometimes they're just all alone in a room, without a text or call from her in a day, how do you think should i feel? LoL. I have trust issues that's why we get into fights because of the situation but if you trust your boyfriend I guess you won't be as paranoid as I am. Your guy's lucky to have you, you're trustworthy.

awww you are just like me. i feel so incomplete whenever i don't receive a message from my boyfriend. we skype and chat everyday too and he is in the states right now i miss him everyday and it is pretty tough being in a long distance relationship but we are trying to e strong and work it out.

It can be difficult, I know this feeling too, when I don't hear about him when I usually do, I get worried and can't concentrate on other things. It took a long while to learn that worrying all the time doesn't help, he is probably just busy, and hope that he will call or message when he has time.

Before my boyfriend and I officially became an item, we would tex each other so much times in a day, that I'd get tired...sigh oh how I wish for those days again sometimes. He's a teacher and he's in univeristy partime so his time is now very divided between his day job as a teacher and him being a part time student studying for his degree, so I wouldn't hear from him for a day, because he's between teaching lessons and completing assignments for university. At first, I was feeling so insecure and like he didn't love me or like he was losing interest in me, but I've come to realise that he's just really busy and he doesn't have the free time he once had when we would tex each other constantly. Anyway, tomorrow's a holiday in my country and we'll be spending the entire day together, making up for lost times I hope But to answer your question it didn't make me feel good at all at first, but I'm getting used to it now.

My thoughts would instantly run wild on things like he's cheating but then I'll caLm down think about it and say hes probably busy

Well if its a long distance relationship, then I would definitely feel sad if I don't receive a text message or a call from my partner. I would miss him a lot.

so you must understand him and his situation maybe he is so busy with his job and occupation just give a little time for him, not always beside you.. its important for giving him a litlle breath to think not only you

I understand you want you always to speak to write or just sit together alone. because you like it you have together. you are crazy about him and love him so istniski feel so. If you did not feel so but you have and now can not work and are focused is what love is. congratulations.

My husband is gone, perhaps for 3 weeks or longer so I won't have any text or call for at least that time. Next week I leave to Hungary so if he is back before me I will not know until I am. Yesterday I said to my son it's a bit quite since usually we have daily contact. But it's fine with me, just hope if something is really happening someone will tell me how or what.

I guess that's because you both in a long distance relationship before, I've even been there once before so I totally understand. Maybe it's time for both of you to "G-E-T M-A-R-RI-E-D" for you both can enjoy time being together and no more missing call because he will be with you all the time.

I too am involved in a long distance relationship. We been together for 2 years now, and things seem to be going alright. He's gone for 8 months of the year, but spends the entire winter with me. I'm thrilled to have him, and proud to have such a wonderful man. Some nights in the summer when he is away he's not able to call or text me. I can understand this because he is busy in what he does, and often times in the evening he's tired. Now mind you, this is a rare occasion where he does not call me, or text me. When he doesn't, I feel sad too. Don't you think though, recording, and listing the time and dates of your bf's calling? No offence, but it just seems a bit obsessive. It will only drive YOIU crazy at the end of each day.... LOL