Social Media

@AidaLily (1450)
United States
March 29, 2012 6:23pm CST
First of all, by Social Media I mean things like Facebook, Myspace, etc. Why has this become such an important staple for life? Lately, it seems that more and more people are wanting to use facebook for things. These include searching a facebook to make sure you want to hire someone based on prejudice and checking on a lover or friend and beyond. For a job, why should facebook be important? What ever happened to checking someone's references. For relationships, what happened to trusting the person you are with? If you know they've cheated before then that is a risk that you are taking. It doesn't mean snoop around their facebook page. Those two examples are using facebook because that is the most common one, but there are plenty of other things. What do you all think? Should social media be the only way to check on things that could possibly have an impact on your life, like a relationship or job?
4 responses
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Social Media like facebook and Myspace plays an important role in our lives. Without these two social media websites we won't be able to reconnect with our old friends wayback in elementary days or with family and friends whom we have not seen for a long time.. it is good to have these websites as it helps us to socialize.. there are other ways to check on things apart from facebook and myspace.. you can use the search engine and type in the keyword..
@AidaLily (1450)
• United States
30 Mar 12
First off, in my opinion I'd rather just send a letter or email. If we weren't talking then, facebook shouldn't be the reason we start in references to reconnecting. There could be anyone pretending to be someone I know or a family member that claims I missed them at the last reunion when he or she could just be a psychotic ex-lover of a family member or something. Secondly, I am not sure exactly what your response has to do with mine as you brought up a search engine. What I am saying is that it shouldn't be so important the way it is now. I mean if you were offered a job that paid more than you are making now, would you want your potential employment to be looked over due to social media? What if one of your friends decided to post up a picture of themselves joking around and smashing someone's face with cake (I used this since it also happens at weddings and such) and the employer decided 'well while you have an ok page, due to your friend's page you can't get hired.' OR What if you had a significant other and a co-worker posted up a picture of you taking a photo with a couple employees or something and gets upset with you? Or pretends to be someone else to try and catch you in cheating? There is also people giving away your information easily because well.. they can just search you and possibly find you if they randomly decide they don't like you? If they want revenge because they feel at some point you upstaged them or something...and the list goes on. These are the reasons I don't think things like this should be important. Did you know for facebook, if you like something there is a chance your picture and/or name could appear to some random person on another site because you liked that product?
@Lhenni (1242)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
I just have an account in FB for chatting with my friends at times. I've no other account like in twitter, myspace and the likes. Facebook and Mylot is just enough for me. But I prefer more in MyLotting. But not to my growing daughter. She's in the level of curiousity and exploring technology online. I just let her but, I used to asked her what she's into, and I knew all her passwords (she gave it to me *wink) so that I can check her stuffs if I wanted too. Well, she's still on my guidance at 10. Yes, we can access information with these social media's but it's not an assurance that it's factual. Impact in our relationship, jobs and other should not be based just on gathered info on social sites for it can be falsified. But yes, it can be leading but at least be sensible.
@AidaLily (1450)
• United States
30 Mar 12
I agree. I just think people are too into this how social media thing. My friend went for a job interview and one of the questions the employer asked was if he had a facebook. To use things like Myspace, Twitter, etc to determine if you should hire someone is a little much. Obviously, people relax when they aren't at work, well I hope they do, so a picture of them on vacation should be the employer's concern. A lot of my female friends use FB to spy on their boyfriends because they just have to check. Its really not that serious in my opinion.
@2004cqui (2812)
• United States
30 Mar 12
Youth. As the next generation populates the earth the more instant communication becomes used. The "boomers" never grew up with technology as we know it now. It's called change (evolution).
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
be careful if you meet someone online,because a lots of scam