Sad :-(

@chicgale (2982)
Philippines
March 30, 2012 2:50am CST
My daughter last night were sobbing before she went to bed. I asked her why, and she told me that she don't want me to die. I asked her who told her that I am going to die, and I told her that I will not die. I told her that I may die someday when I become real old. She said she is just sad at her school mate who lost his mother few days ago. She said she don't wanna loose me at her age right now. I got sad thinking about what my daughter told me last night. I know she loves me so much but sometimes I get to think that what if I die? I know it is not right for me to think about it, but I felt sorry for a kid who lost their mother or father at the young age.
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8 responses
@yanzalong (18987)
• Indonesia
30 Mar 12
Your daughter is very sensitive, genious and reacts quickly. She is a very good girl, I know. You must be proud of her.
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
I am very proud of her. Thanks yanzalong! :D
@ardoy0731 (7308)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
That is really heartbreaking. I myself dont know what will happen if I lose my mom.your daughter really loves you so much.
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
I think all children are afraid to loose their moms.. :-( Yeah, my daughter really love me
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
31 Mar 12
i think its much better to tell her that dying is not the end of everything.people sometimes die early for many reasons but when someone die,its a start for them for a new journey..
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@Cherish14 (2693)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
thinking about it makes me sad too. i don't have children yet but i have a lot of love ones i don't ever want to leave. like i want to be gone because of old age, see my love ones enjoy life together, my nephews and nieces successful and happy in the future. i want to have a family with my boyfriend and see my children grow up and be happy and also successful and stable in the future. sometimes, questions that children ask really can be hard to answer and explain.
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@dazzledlady (1618)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
How young is your daughter? Well it is good to know that she is learning to value the things she loves, I mean she is afraid of losing anyone she cares about. Your child is growing up, and soon she will realize that sometimes we lose things in this life and love ones may come and go. But as for today, give her the assurance that you will be with her, as long as she needs you. And yes I think it is really sad to lose your parent, parents a young age. It would really make me feel incomplete if it happened to me. I hope her classmates have a good family to fill in for her loss.
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Thank you dazzledlady. My daughter just is 7 years old.
30 Mar 12
you should have to frank with your children........she cares about you because she doesn't want to lose you ....your children is only 7 years now she is a worry about family........after five to six years she will take all the responsibility.....don't worry enjoy your life with happiness.......u should not have to think about die. we should have to enjoy each and every moment of life
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@chicgale (2982)
• Philippines
30 Mar 12
Yes, true. Thanks! :D
@jeetking (190)
30 Mar 12
yes you are right its very heartening for those kids who lost their parents at a very early age which puts a negative effect on their mindset.
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• South Africa
30 Mar 12
It really is sad for a child to lose a parent at a young age. All you can do is tell your baby the trugh, that you may die at any point, and that what she has to do is focus on the bright side of life..enjoy you and her life while you are still together..Painful things happen all the time, and so do good things. Just tell her that God is in control.
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