Have you ever experienced lonelyness.?/

sometimes things like that happen. We accumulate a lot and sometimes it is nice to be alone. Loneliness is not nice and hard to swallow the pain but you just have to be able to apologize or to solve the problem and will not suffer. nice day!

Sorry to hear about that. But you know during breakups, sometimes we have to allow ourselves to be sad about it. Like grieving. It's normal to be sad in losing something that was, or could have been, good for us. And during this sad time, it's normal to feel lonely. I think you should just let yourself feel it so that you can get past it. When I'm lonely, I listen to a lot of music. Mostly ones that make me feel more lonely. It seems masochistic but sometimes the loneliness will just soak me up so much that I will want to get rid myself of it at some point. Then, when you've gotten so down that there's no other way left to go but up. So, hang in there buddy! Things will turn around. Your mylot friends are here for you!

Hi sua! I'm not sure on how would I comment about this since I do not know the reason why you and your girlfriend broke up. I'll just give you some advice. I'm in a relationship for 4 years now and i will not say that it's a perfect one but we are still surviving ours because of love. we broke up many times but we keep coming back to each other's arms. When we broke up, we let each other think of what we have done and why we did ended up. after days passed, or weeks passed, we open each other for communication hoping that we still can be friends but then again friendship turns out to be an intimate relationship again. so the lesson that i learned is to give each other sometime to think, reminisce, and understand things on your own. I'm not saying that you should not move on right away. just understand each others feeling. and in time moving on will be easy if there's no way to fix the relationship. Hope this will be a help.

I was lonely when my ex-boyfriend and I broke up and I was very sad because we had been together for several years and I thought that he was the person that I was going to spend the rest of my life with. One of my close friends helped me a lot in that period. He visited me and we did a lot of things together like exploring different parts of the country together. That gave me something else to think about and it helped me get through the difficult period. Today I am married to another man and I am grateful that my ex-boyfriend and I broke up, because I am much happier today. That is my experience and the things that helped me, I don't know if the same things are going to help you, but you could try to spend some time with your friends and visit new places together. You could also take up a new hobby or get involved in some voluntary work. That would help you get out of the house and think about other things than you sadness and the break-up.

Don't let you down, I am so sorry to hear that. However you have to face it when it came. You can hang out with your good friends, and return back from sadness.Sometimes if we couldn't change again, then to face it with courage.Cheer up.

Ye i have. Just try to forget her. Find the other one. :)

There are lots of things you can do to decrease the loneliness. Call our your friends and old friends. Keep in touch with your family members. Visit your relatives. Spend time with the children. Go to beach and enjoy the sun and sea. Do some charity work. Do some gardening. Watch some good movie. Keep yourself busy. Enjoy ice cream, chocolates. Play some sports. I think there are 1000 ways to decrease the loneliness. Spend less time thinking. If you think more you get more lonely. Keep busy. As time passes you will find you getting out of it. It happened to me also before in my life.

Welcome to mylot Sua. All i could say is been there, done that. It is normal for you to feel really sad after a breakup most especially if you loved the girl so much. At this point in time, i would suggest that you drown your sorrows with positivity. Go out with your family and friends. It is no use living in sadness. You'll come through i assure you that.

I would suggest that you find a new girlfriend. There are lots of ladies out there, I'm sure. don't be lonely, just make friends!

I feel that too sometimes. All you have to do is keep yourself busy. Go for a walk, chat with friends, hang out with friends or go on a vacation.

All of us have experienced being lonely because of many reasons and different circumstances. I understand that having broke up with your girlfriend is not an easy situation to be in. There is the pain in the heart, those anxious moments, the different memories, etc. However, we don't succeed by keeping ourselves lonely all the time. It may be difficult but I know that you are strong enough to overcome. it is one of the lessons of life that comes to you so you will bear it. as you allow some time for you to heal that broken heart, you will notice that you become stronger.

I feel alone frequently. The past few months hadn't been so bad, but now it's as bad as ever and I don't know what to do to make it stop. It's one of the worst feelings to be in a crowd of people, especially if they're people who are close to you, and feel all alone.I especially feel alone since I've started this job which has me on night shift. No one is ever awake when you are, and you barely get to spend time with your significant other.

I was incredibly lonely for some years when I was a teenager because I didn't find any true friends... but it was worth the waiting. So try to stay positive, alone doesn't necessarily equal lonely. Btw you could spend more time with your friends or just dig yourself deep into a time-consuming hobby (DIY things, stamp collecting, any kind of sports, you name it).

There are few ways to over come your lonliness - By keeping urself busy with the work you enjoy. - Talk to your loved ones(Nt with the one you just brokeup..:p) - Hangout with friends..... Cheerss..:)

Everyone experiences loneliness. That is part of being normal. Yes , you can be lonely maximum of one week and after that just move on. There are more things for you out there. Don't cry over spilled milk.

I've experienced that too. If you want to move on and you don't want to go back to your ex-girlfriend. The best thing to do is spend your time to yourself. help yourself up. spend time to people who loves and cares for you. focus on your career and to people who loves you. enjoy life. Enjoy what you have right now. call some friends and tell them what you really feel for now. being single doesn't mean you're alone. you have friends and family that will always be there for you whatever you do. so don't feel alone. you may look like you're alone but you're not. If you really love your ex-girlfriend try to get her back. And you think that you don't want any other girl anymore. Go back to her. I'm pretty sure if she still love you, she will appreciate you courting her back, just to get her back. At least you did everything for her.