what to do if your in this situation?
By smelz23
@smelz23 (190)
Philippines
April 1, 2012 2:31pm CST
I met this girl a year before, and now she is my Girlfriend for 3 months. and then with the problems she was facing right now is hard for her to decide whether she would tell me her very personal problem. then i told her to state some few things about her personal problems,
I have concluded that she was still married but they were separated for 2 years now, and she was planning to make a divorce but her husband don't want sign on the divorce paper.
What would you do? will you continue your relationship or you will stay away now? but for me i will continue and if her husband don't want to sign divorce papers, i will take her with me and we will live to other country..
8 responses
@veksinho (84)
• Croatia (Hrvatska)
2 Apr 12
hello mate i think thet is so serius problem and thet only person who can solve thet problem is yourself . I had in the future similar situations and try to find the
answer in other peple and ony i can say thet other try to help but they simply solve my situatins
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
i like your decisiveness. well, it sounds like you really love your girlfriend. first, it is wiser to be together in a legal way. otherwise, there is always something that will hold you back. even if you go to another country, the thought of impediment will always be at the back of your mind. if the legal matters are not settled, then it's the time that you decide. i admire your determination.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
2 Apr 12
If you still believe in that you love her that much, why give her up? You should support her, and help her through all these problem together. And you should tell her how much you love her, and you won't abandon her no matter what situation she is in. Good luck with that, people should believe what they believe in.
@HeartCJ1921 (194)
• Philippines
2 Apr 12
Hello friend i think the best way i can advice to you, if you love the girl so much then you need to fight your love for her,
and her husband, he don't want to sign the divorce paper you need to talked to him and
explain that two of you,find the love to each other. Goodluck friend.
@mariab2000 (740)
• Canada
1 Apr 12
I would just be a little bit more cautious and make sure that the story she is telling is really true and she is eparated from her husband and has had no relationship with him in the past 2 years. If what she is saying is true then there is nothing wrong with continuing your relationship with her...
@maezee (41988)
• United States
1 Apr 12
If they are separated.... And you love her, you should be with her. Just be wary and know that sometimes there is more to the story than just that the husband won't sign the papers. Maybe she herself is getting cold feet about divorcing him and is using that as an excuse. If she makes you happy, you should stick with her... And do what you can to help expedite the divorce....
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
1 Apr 12
First of all it has to be clear if she still has a relationship with her husband. Is she really living alone for X-years or?
If she does I would consider her as a free person. Might be pity she is still officially married and her husband refuses to sign the divorce papers but I would not care about that either. You don't need that paper to love someone or to live together. You even don't need to move because of that reason.
