Deleting "friends"
By desertrose16
@desertrose16 (600)
United States
April 1, 2012 3:58pm CST
I am on this site that I got invited to join. I met this jerk. We starting talking. He went to far in thinking one thing. I told him I am seeing someone. He assumed he has the right to go out with me. He is so conceited. I cannot stand anyone who feels they have rights that they never had. I told the guy to leave me alone. I told him why. I deleted him and made sure he will never get in touch with me again!
12 responses
@mariab2000 (740)
• Canada
2 Apr 12
You did the right thing. No one has the tight to force someone else to out with them. If I were in this situation, I would have also deleted him as a friend and have nothing to do with him.
@goldenteardrops (747)
• United States
2 Apr 12
to explain details and why you deleted was the right thing to do. maybe he will think before trying that again on someone else..sometimes it is nice to give a nice comment to someone but to keep on in a rude like way is wrong. You did right and some just never grow up mature enough to understand leave me alone means just that.
@apoljuice1 (730)
• Philippines
2 Apr 12
Well, that's exactly what you should do to people like that. They're not worth any time or effort. He was probably playing around, if you think about it. So don't stress. Some people just want to waste time and play around. They're not worth paying any attention to.
@mhimi_viduya (140)
• Philippines
2 Apr 12
Just ignore that guy since he cannot understand words. I think he is more than a jerk! good for u that u delete him :)
@else22 (4317)
• India
2 Apr 12
I think,you did the right thing.He had mistaken you for something else that you understand well what I mean.Having such persons as friends is unbecoming for anybody who has a self respect.I appreciate you for your decision.People generally think of others just as they themselves are.If we don't have a character,we think others too don't have it.
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
i like your attitude. yeah, you're right. no one has the right to force us to go out with him/her. since you have made it clear with him, it is now settled that you are taken, and should be respected for that. any intended advances may face similar consequence. that's the spirit. that's the attitude. your boyfriend must be proud of you.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
1 Apr 12
yes delete people who are like this. i too delete friends on the list here at mylot if they only koined the send friend request then after that invites you in a different site to go under their name. that is not how to invite a person to join. you establish friendship first. why will i join with you if i dont know you. regarding your post, there are a lot of guys who are like that on the net. my wife's friends experience a few who thinks they are better person. you dont say that, you need to prove that. you can not be mr know it all, you have to gain that. so good for you, annoying people must be treated like that. deleted.
@WakeUpKitty (8694)
• Netherlands
1 Apr 12
Just ignore that guy. Had one like that too, telling me I would I just don't know it yet. Well I know myself so ignored and deleted him. It's the only way.
@7Chords (98)
• United States
1 Apr 12
That's hilarious, not the situation, but I experienced the same thing. Some people are just not wrapped to tight. It's good that you've deleted him. You shouldn't have to worry yourself over something like that, if ya catch my drift. Anyway congrats on dumping the jerk and freeing yourself :3. If he comes back and tries to apologize hold your ground, it'll just happen again!