My greatest disappointments in my life.

for me i think my greatest disappointment in life was to fell in love to a wrong guy who made me weak and only used,sometimes i remember how funny and silly i was be with those guy,i just laugh when i remember them,i only wasted my time to them.

So sorry you went through these hardships, but like everyone said, keep your head up. For everything that goes wrong, there are tons of things that can go right. I totally understand about disappointments as well. I'm disappointed in myself for not taking school as seriously as I should have from the beginning, because now my reflect that lack of effort/fooling around. The important thing is to not dwell too long on the loss or the failure itself. You might be in debt now, but you can slowly make changes in the way you save, or even start a new business endeavor in time. Don't let yourself feel too down. Feeling sad is natural, but there is always something brighter in the future, no matter how dark things might seem now.

I don't have many regrets or disappointments but the one thing I guess disappointments is not ever having children, when I was younger I was never really into babies and children but now I look at little babies and toddlers and just can't watching them exploring the world, they are fascinating to watch...

it sounds like you are going through some real hardships. i hope you have some outside support during these times that can cause depression. there is a saying that the wheel turns both ways. you seem to be going on a counter clock-wise position now, but that can only happen for so long. eventually, the wheel has to start to turn the other way. maybe the things you though you had going on that was good, are the things that your subconscious knows that was not good for you. for example, maybe you can't run your own business if you have a job. maybe the GF you had wasn't the right girl for you anyway. sounds like she was never yours. you never know what doors or opening as a result of one closing. good luck to you. hope the wheel starts turning clock-wise soon. on to better things for you.

I know that must be hard to take. I am sorry these things happened. It seems like you have a good attitude. Just keep trying! Try not to let the failures bring you down, look at them as a learning opportunity.

Bulastika, Do not give up. Yes you have had some set backs but the only way to not succeed is to stop trying. All successful people have experienced what you are going through. persevere! Find your inner strength and draw from it. Start small and try again. YOU WILL SUCCEED. As for the GF, yes it hurts to loose someone. In time your heart will heal and you will find someone who appreciates all of your efforts. Live Free!

Hello :). My condolences for your lose, both your business and your g/f. If your country is suffering from recession like mine, starting a business right now is cheap but will have a lot of loss so, unless it is someone who has a lot of starting capital, it isn't recommendable to start it for now. Right now even getting a job is hard in here, and a lot of people are suffering and having an increasing debt which can push them into despair. But don't lose hope, this bad economic times will pass as they always do and if you are ready to ride the change, you can use it to get anything you want. So what I can tell you is to not abandon your dream of having a business, because it is still possible, because no matter how grim things look now they will change. Keep trying hard and you will see that you can change your life as long as you don't give up.